Pregnancy before marriage in Islam?

[797]

Hello, me and my girlfriend had sex and now she's pregnant. Her family don't know about us. Last time she asked if she could get married they told her in 2 years. So she's scared of telling her family about us n that she's pregnant so she wants to have an abortion but I can't allow that. I know I have sinned on having sex before marriage but now I can't just allow her to have an abortion that's haram. I though of running away with her n get married and have the baby. But it won't be valid if her parent don't accept this right? I don't know wt to do I need a very good advice, she's really scared of her family (Pakistani culture) so she won't allow me to go ask for her hand.

[Ani]

Ignore the Christian Fund guy. He's a jerk. You made a mistake and that's fine! We all make mistakes. The best thing for the both of you to do is find a way to get married. If she is afraid of her family, maybe she is better off in yours. Talk to her and explain that you both made a mistake together and that you both have to take responsibility and you both have to raise this child. Marriage is definitely the best way to go. If you get married she is put in a position of hurting her family but considering she is pregnant with your child, her loyalty is to you. Her family will understand in years to come. You have to explain to her that it is the only choice she has right now unless she wants to confess to her family of what she has done. GOOD LUCK!

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