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937 · 05-23-2014, 01:28 AM

I've only been talking to her for 3 days and we've hung out for 2 days, the first day I didn't walk her home, but the second day I did and she got really excited. I'm talking about the second day right now. She was with a group of guys because I was playing some basketball. She came up to me a few times and played with me actually. Then I started a game with these little kids because I was bored out of my mind and didn't want to just awkwardly step into their group and talk, but I did when the game ended and she asked me "You're going home?" I said yes and she said Ok let's go, then we we stepped outside the park, she said Okay I'll see you later but I said Nah I'm walking you home and she got really excited and gave me a big hug infront of her house. Later on facebook she told me she thinks we're gonna be bestfriends. Am I friendzoned? I'm a guy.
NOTE - SHE TOLD ME SHE LIKES SOMEONE Sad

Thanks for all the answers! I appreciate it Smile

mike hussey · 05-23-2014, 01:35 AM

GO STRAIGHT AND SAY I LOVE YOU

bethany · 05-23-2014, 01:47 AM

3 days? isn't that a bit early to know if you like someone? I did the same. I think you could be friendzoned but she may like you and is just saying that so that you don't suspect anything and also so that you want her even more

Ovidiu · 05-23-2014, 02:02 AM

Well, next time you walk her home - which, by the way, was a great idea - tell her how thrilled you are, since she likes you, and wants you to be best friends with her, yet, tell her bluntly, but gently, that you were thinking about something "slightly" different - girlfriend/boyfriend!
Don't push!
Give her space, give her time, let her think about it.
Take it easy!...

Jen · 05-23-2014, 02:09 AM

give it more time

shauna · 05-23-2014, 02:18 AM

Tell her! Girls love honesty but make sure your not too open about your feelings just yet!

When you say she got exited what do you mean?
Do you mean jumpy and smiley?
Or do you mean chatty?

Try and notice the little things and it will give you more of a clue to wether she likes you or not
Try to know tise the eye contact , does she look into your eyes when she speaks to you?
Does she try and get closer in anyway or try and touch you?
Does she speak on about non sense and gets a bit shy time to time?
Look out for these, it could give you a big hint that she likes you!

Delk · 05-23-2014, 02:23 AM

Geez. Does everything have to fall in your lap? Everybody needs friends. Be a friend and see what develops. You're confused because EVERYTHING MUST go just exactly as you want it to go? Buddy, you are in for a HARD, HARD life if you continue in that vein.

martez · 05-23-2014, 02:36 AM

next time say i dont want to be ya bestfriend no more she gonna say ok and leave or say why if she says y say becuse i wanna be ya boyfriend if she trys to leave say wait i dont wanna be ya friend i just wanna take away the best and put boy or just say i wanna be more than that or say i wanna be ya boyfriend either way she gonna say no i just wanna be friends or yes good luck

Elisha · 05-23-2014, 02:38 AM

You need to tell her, because shes obviously confused about the situation.

elie · 05-23-2014, 02:50 AM

Maybe the someone she likes is you? Tell her that you're starting to have feelings for her and see what she says. Take it slow. If she doesn't feel the same about you then be content with being friends with her.