how do I get my ex bf to stop contacting me?

[381]

My ex and I broke up over a year ago, we used to live together and do everything together.We were together for almost 3 years and the reason we broke up was because I felt he was very controlling and jealous, also because I would go out with my friends on weekends some times and go clubbing or go to bars. He always would accuse me of doing things with other guys and etc... and I eventually just got sick of it and broke it off. I started working out at the gym and dating other guys and he asked me if I wanted to hangout. This was a month or two after we broke up, which I knew was not a good idea but saw him anyways. Well basically we talked about whats new in our life and I told him I was seeing a guy and we hooked up. I KNOW ! Stupid on my part and I know it was to soon but I was trying to fill a empty part I was feeling. He shorty started acting completely different toward me.I could tell things werent going to be the same. A week later he tells me hes been seeing a girl at his work and he really likes her and how pretty she is and how he didnt think he can get a girl like her. So I decided I should move forward with my life and leave him and his new girl alone. So I moved to a new state(have family there)and we stopped contact for a little while. I found out that he and her are official bf and gf over facebook. BUT the thing is, he wont stop calling me and contacting me. He makes fake facebook profiles and calls me on unknown numbers and calls me on his friends phones. Why?

[The Tutti]

He's most likely not over you. Probably trying to make you jealous and misses you. Just ignore him. Block him on social networking sites and change your number. Don't let someone like him back into your life.

[Brian]

He's trying to get into a Taijuana style donkey show so he can record it for the internet.

[Janette]

Basically you are the insurance policy or the fall back girl, the fact that he got involved with some one new so that he could hurt you by flaunting his new "relationship" shows what he's made of & it's not too pleasant to look at as an impartial observer.
Change your sim card & get a new number if possible (worth it for your serenity) & change the privacy settings on FB plus you can also block & report unwanted contacts. Keep doing this he will soon get the message, but only if you are in earnest about not wanting any contact with him, don't be flattered by the attention it's not benign. Going no contact is the best & quickest way of recovering from a duff relationship
Be Happy & all will be well.

[Kittysue]

Make sure your Facebook profile is set to Private and DO NOT accept friend requests or respond to messages from people you don't know
Change your phone number if you have to - and ONLY give the number to people you trust. Tell them not to give your new number to anyone
Do not contact him at all - don't email him, don't call him, don't pick up calls from unknown numbers. Also when I had an ex turn into a stalker the police told me to change my voicemail so it was not my voice - just use the generic message with the 'robot' voice. Otherwise they will keep calling just to hear your voice