SHOULD I MSG THIS GUY ON FB OR NOT? IF YES WHAT SHOULD I SAY!!! HES LEAVING SCHOOL IN 7 DAYS!!!?ill answer urs?

[677]

Ok so im 17 yo girl, very shy around people i dont know, socially awkward sometimes.I have zero experience with guys. There is this one guy who I find cute for almost two years now, even though I dont know him and he doesnt know me. Hes graduating in less than two weeks, and ill prolly never see him again. I dont have any classes with him, i do seldom see him in hallways. I tried adding him on fb in December (stalkerish i know) he didnt accept, though i think he ignored it then i msged him saying hey. it never showed that the msg was seen by him, i think it went to his other inbox. Anyways i wanna do sth before its too late, i dont know if he has a gf :/ Will it be weird if i msg him on fb saying that i know hes leaving sooon, and that i just wanted to say hes cute? Right now we got 2 mutal friends on fb, so im scared if i send him this msg he will get the old one from December, and hell think im a creep or should i not worry since i will never see him again, so i might as well embarrasse myself?

ALSO If so far ( almost 2 years) I never did anything on the matter, I'll prolly be scared and now. So would it be betteter to try smiling at him in the hall or send a msg? When should I send the msg cos i know that if i see him in the hall ill feel embarassed the next day! What if he has a gf?? Am i gonna come off as a creep when he sees the old msg from the December? Will this msg now go to his real inbox? Should I add him again and then msg him?
So many thoughts running through my head!! Am i overthinking this? heeelllpppppppppppppppppp
Please any advice on this matter??

[Veronica]

Facebook message won't work, probably. Talk to him in real life. Make an excuse to talk to him, say something like "Oh, you're that guy from (...)". Do a small chit-chat with him, make sure you seem confident and not shy. Have a sweet smile while talking. If you have mutual classes with him, ask him something about the lesson. A few days later, talk to him again, and ask him if he has Facebook. After he says yes, tell him to add you as a friend, or add him yourself. He'll probably accept the request this time. Talk to him on Facebook, like lots, and then talk to him in real life. Then just go with the flow.

[Alexa]

You want to talk to a guy who doesn't know you, may have a girlfriend and is graduating in two weeks?

Plus he chose not to friend you?

That ship has sailed! He's a stranger and isn't even going to be at your school anymore, probably not even in your town anymore. Let him go, don't bother with him. It's not your fault, that was just how circumstances are.

Your best bet would be to take advantage of the upcoming summer: learn something new (first aid? a new language?), contemplate what you'll do after HS, join a club, take up yoga or pilates or hiking. Become a CIT (counselor in training) at a day or summer camp! Just get out there and enjoy yourself.

[Loren]

Girl slow down, you are over thinking it, here's what i do i would message him (to his fb) and tell him i mean there's no shame in trying and if he gets and if he's interested he'll talk to you,but as far as his probably having a girlfriend thing i think you would be able to see it on his fb where it says "relationship status" or here's one better if you see him in the hall stop him and talk to him i mean you only live once...right?! and sometimes embarrassing yourself it what it takes,whatever don't think about it , just live in the moment and go for it!

[Yolo]

I know how you feel.
I have been in the same situation and i acted on it and even though i am not dating him, we are good friends.
If he is leaving in 7 days what do you have to lose ? On fb it should say if he has a girlfriend or not.
Normally he won't be able to see your older message.
Just say hey and talk a bit. I wouldn't use the term I think your cute it is a little childish ( i think personally but say what you want)
And maybe show some interest like smiling at him or ask him a question if you think you would feel better before sending him a message.
I say go for it =)