My boyfriend is so mysterious why what's his problem?

[Emma]

20 year's old female straight up went on a dating site 7 months ago, been talking and chatting to this indian from india seems like for years the way this is going he to is 20 year's old.

So really the bottom line is that we have talk on skpye and by phone facebook etc, when I asked him questions he gets so up tight about it and says why you wanna know, what you want.

For example:
I said to him do you have work today, how much do you get is it part time or full time, what do you like to eat, do you have a car.

Anyway so thats why I'm calling him mr mysterious, he can asked me questions but when I asked him things he just says what you want.Or he say's I'm fighting with him again just because I asked him whats he up to, by the way he called me his mother on skpye to, cause he kind of said I sound like his mother always asking questions.

We haven't even meet yet either I've been waiting for so long to, so thats why I've decided I'm not gonna skype him again until he comes down here, and this is so far what I know about him he works part time at mc'dondals and yes I like finally got it out of him, but serious can't asked to much.

[229]

Well emma i am an indian boy to & i have many american's female frnds added on my facbook i talk to them almost everyday but all m doing is to connect myself with there lifestyle what they do in the morning daytime or at night m greedy to know there lifestyle stuff & shittt they also answer me well like i live next door to them but one thing i know for sure that i have no future with them niether did they at my age your hormones is really kicking in & you can't really focus on anything besides sex so wt that fuker is doing wid yaa is playing your "S" for fool & as you showing interest in him he is playing real cool with you now like sometimes he act innocent & others day sad but if you gonna ask me he don't giv a fk abt you so you better chill & don't take him seriesly best of luck !

And let me tell you if he works at Mac'donals i am sure he did'n own a fking bycycle & you were asking if u hav a car coz most guys works in there are poor in lifestyle well i also worked in mac'donals for about 2 months But i did that jst for fun

I want you to read my answer thousand times untill you understand wt my point is Your a beautiful girl jst be positive & smile & good things will happen to you god bless !

[Gulab]

OK, my two cents (on second thought, make it two Rupees): If he is closing 20 and works at McDonalds, then one, he has some entry level profile there. While that is perfectly normal and respectable in Australia, in India, most people wouldn't be comfortable telling this to their friends fearing that they may be judged.

Two, he should be in college instead of working at McDonalds. If he is not going there, then either his economic situation is bad (we are talking family here not just him) or his grades were bad so he couldn't get into any college.

As Agent R said, he probably doesn't have a car. And in all likelihood he is not comfortable discussing this with you because he is trying to fake a lifestyle which he is not living because he can't afford. And he is faking it because you are extremely valuable to him (for good reasons and otherwise) and he doesn't want to lose you (how romantic is that).

He is not crossing the oceans for you anytime soon because a flight ticket from India to Melbourne right now will cost him a lot more than a fortune and some more. By sea he will be detained at Papua New Guinea and if lucky, then sent back.

So the "bottom line" for you here is that yes he likes you, perhaps worships you but no he wouldn't tell much about himself since he is not comfortable with who he is right now.. and no he isn't coming there anytime soon unless he hits a jackpot somewhere.