IS HE JUST USING ME FOR SEX? DOES HE ACTUALLY HAVE A GIRLFRIEND?

[Lana]

hi so i created a tinder account about 2 and a half weeks ago, on the first day, i got talking to this awesome swedish guy. he seemed really friendly, and was just so nice! the conversation was very flirtatious, and we arranged to meet up in the following week. I went over to his place, we watched a movie, and then we got it on (i know, i know, stupid idea). he told me he wanted to see me again, and texted me all the following week, again, the texts where quite flirtatious and we both couldn't wait to see each other. on the second date, i went over to his place, watched a movie, had sex, then went out for dinner. he told me he would love to see me again. he texted me the next day saying that he had a great time, however, this week we've been texting a lot less frequently. is he bored of me already?? he's taking longer to text back, and the conversations are much shorter.

also, i know that he had a long term girlfriend who he was with for about 2 years. the last picture he uploaded of them together was 12 weeks ago, but only yesterday i found a tagged photo of them together just 4 weeks ago!! he moved to the UK a month ago, she still lives in sweden. i've been assuming that they are broken up, since his facebook profile says 'single', and there doesn't seem to be any facebook contact with her. he hasn't mentioned her at all, and even said to me 'i'm not like other guys you know, i actually like you!'. whats going on??? i'm so confused...
Rebbeca: we didn't have sex the first day i met him. I understand it was a stupid thing to do.

[Pewdiegeek]

I'm kinda in the same boat I met up with this guy we went back to his had sex and he dumped me Sunday for his ex ... But there still not together he said he had feelings for her he liked me but he loved her the texts were flirtatious until the day after I still like him tho :/ I think I should move on tbh as for you you'll never find out unless you ask which Is what I'm having to do now

[Rebecca]

He knew a good sllut when he saw one. Are you a fool? hopefully jumping in bed the day you met him will not leave you knocked up or DEAD. Did you realize when you slept with him you potentially slept with every partner he has in the way of diseases? You know like AIDS/HIV/Herpes/STD'S?

No not stupid, dumb as a rock and finally

HAVE YOU NO RESPECT FOR YOURSELF?

[auftrit]

Rebecca nailed it !!

[RIGHT IS RIGHT]

You shouldn't be surprised that he enjoys and appreciates the fact that you are always more than willing to drop your panties and put out for him whenever he is horny and needs some

[Ayo]

What do you expect he's using you as a sextoy within ONE WEEK and you f***ed him already he only texts you when he wants to get laid you're like a free prostitute