How to not get attached to a guy as a female? Genetically imposible or...?

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This is question might portray me as a really dumb person so please dont judge lol. Also id like to apologise in advance about the gramar errors, im on my Android and its hard to correct my writing.

so i had a teeny crush on this guy. He used to talk to me all the time about my boobs and how he found me attractive (mostly just boobs tho). Anyway, I used to be really self conscious about my boobs without a bra on which is why i always postponed "hanging out." Also, this was months and months and I happened to be kinda awkward and dorky and embarrassed myself with him a little and stuff you know? Anyway he got a girlfriend, and it was weird at first seeing him around school and stuff. Eventually though, he inched his way back into the comfort zone he was in before and started to compliment my chest and stuff as he did before. He invited himself to my house when I coincidentally started taking the same bus as him home, and tried hooking up with me in when all I thought he wanted to do was chill (I was naïve, I know) since he had a girlfriend. It wasnt moral like I would feel bad hooking up with him because of the girlfriend, moreso me wanting him to not see me as a ho (I learned later it wouldnt matter). i was also worried about her finding out tho since she and i were cool at the time, but he assured me hed keep it a secret and how he felt bad about girls and rumors and how he was taught to not put others' business out there and I thought it was sweet. But i did tell him to set himself out and i apologized for being misleading and it was cool, we promised to never speak of it again. But when they broke up, he invited himself over again and I gave him head. GREAT head!! And we started exchanging pictures and stuff but we never had fullsex. He came over to my house while my parents were gone and i gave him head again, but when he unhooked my bra and tried doing stuff to me i got really nervous and awkward but I told him Id do it soon. But I ended up moving last minute. Lol. But BEFORE i moved I asked him to hang out and he kinda was playing "too-cool" so i wasnt going to harass him. but randomly he follows me on twitter and dm's me and stuff. But Im probably visiting my old town soon...
Sorry for writing so much but heres the main question:

he continues to talk to the ex he still has feelings for. And Im beginning to catch feelings for him despite him not treating me really well (I feel like a lot of it is my own fault though for being so uncool when we first met) because hes sooo cute and I lost a lot of my virginities to him (and by that I mean kiss and throat virginity lol) and hes the first guy to see my breasts but he doesnt know all that and I dont talk to mad guys and idk where Im going with this but basically how do I stop getting attached?? I want to have sex with him when Im in town but I dont want to get more attached than I already am. It makes me upset that he likes his ex girlfriend so much despite me being so great and Idk if im too emotionally involved to bang him. And ive read that when a female has sex she releases hormones that emotionally attach her to that guy. I was wondering if its possible to control getting attached or if its just inevitable

[Kevin]

Well Brittany ....its so true that its one impossible to overcome with the such kind of feelings as far as physical relations are concerned you can go ahead with the same and its a kind of myth that hormones make you emotionally involved which releases while doing sex. If it could be possible then I believe whores would have numerous relations.....XOXOXO so Do enjoy go ahead and rem its the feelings who drives you to sex.....just take it casually.... don't mix emotions in this ......also the more attachment will give u more pain ...so my dear its better keep the emotions side ...nd go ahead and the moment u feel u r getting a more involvement then I advice u to move on .........