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How to talk to Girls when you're shy?
05-24-2014, 03:24 PM
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How to talk to Girls when you're shy?
I can't really talk to girls unless their in one of classes or anything. When I try to approach the girl I like my mind blows up and I end up forgetting what to say. I would ask my friends for advice but they just view them as objects. I can't figure out how to have a normal conversation without accidentally creeping them out and such.

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05-24-2014, 03:33 PM
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You can either improve your self-esteem or drug yourself. Depends on how fast you want it to work.

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05-24-2014, 03:41 PM
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Believe be, many girls will appreciate you coming up to them. It shows you are strong and confident (even though on the inside you are nervous as heck). If you see a girl, look at her from a distance until your eyes meet and smile at her. From there you will be able to tell if she is interested or not. if she smiles back then you can approach her and just introduce yourself. you don't have to say everything. Once you say Hi she will say Hi and you can start to converse with her. make sure you seem interested in her, and don't talk about yourself. Once you approach one girl the next time it will become easier and so forth. Smile
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05-24-2014, 03:42 PM
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Just say hi every day for about week and half and then say how are you doing for about a week and slowly talk to her say see what happen I talk to a shy girl one time and end up being friend
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05-24-2014, 03:45 PM
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Confidence is key!
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05-24-2014, 03:51 PM
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hey, I'm a girl who is literally in the same position as you rn Sad
This guy i like is in quiet a few of my classes, and thats really the only time i talk to him...
The other week i worked up enough courage to ask him to the movies with me and a couple of friends, it was over fb but it was a start i guess.
He said yes to coming but in the end he got busy and couldn't come, i was devastated but i was proud that i got over a bit of a barrier and put myself out there.

so what I'm trying to say is just do it. Just talk to her, start conversations about homework to get it going, and then branch out into other things like favourite movies, books, plans for holidays etc. Once your both comfortable with each other, maybe even ask her out somewhere. If she turns you down so what, Im sure you would've regretted it if you hadn't have said anything at all.

Good luck with everything Smile
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05-24-2014, 04:00 PM
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Be yourself at all times. Be sweet, smile, and things will naturally happen.
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05-24-2014, 04:15 PM
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Be yourself and act with confidence
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