Please!! Nobody is answering me!!?

[220]

I moved here 6 months ago and a boy in the year below me started talking to me on fb and snapchat ect. And we are best friends now and we share everything and anything with eachother. We go to the same school and sometimes hang out at lunch, say hey and stuff but we r in different years groups. so he has a girlfriend who goes to a private school in town and lives there so they don't see eachother much cause it's far away. Recently they've been falling out over silly things and he is always turning to me for help and telling me I'm his best friend and that we never fall out. Anyway a week ago they patched things up it seemed like but he is still worried about the whole thing and told me that he is still having bad thoughts about her. And along with all this recently he has been making excuses to tell me I look nice and things and the other was telling me who knew someone who thought I was hot and then went on to say that he thought I was very pretty and wasn't going to pretend he didn't-his words and always wants to snapchat pictures and stuff. I think he is generally being just a nice person and we have this joke thing about me having a six pack because I don't and he does. And recently he's kept asking to see mine and it is in a jokey way but I'm not sure it's right coincide ring he has a girlfriend. But he is my best friend and he says I'm his. What should I do about the whole situation? I can't just plain ask him. I'd love to but I feel he could be touchy about it help
I'm a 16 year old girl btw

[Jacqueline]

You shouldn't make him cheat on his girlfriend as it would make life a living hell for you and him. If you really truly have feelings for him tell him when he is single and its really nice of him to say all these nice things about you, but whatever you do not make things bad for him and his girlfriend. Stay strong and positive about your friend and someday you and him may be more than friends!
Good Luck! c;

Edit- Are you a boy or a girl?

[Lane]

it sounds like he doesn't want to be with his girlfriend anymore, and has instead started flirting with you. now, I could be wrong, but that definitely sounds like flirting. I can't tell you what to do, but you might consider getting ready for when he breaks up with her and asks YOU out. but then again, maybe I'm wrong and know absolutely nothing about guys....

[SoaringSky]

Firstly are you female or male? from the whole six pack thing I'm assuming you are a boy? Well if you are a boy i think you may be over thinking a little as your friend is straight right? However by how your describing things, if you are a boy he may be a little bi curious (wonder what its like to be with another man) so in that sense you would have a chance with him. However it may not end well due to the fact he's only "curious" and might not like it. OR if you are in fact a female i believe he has been complementing you and such due to the fact he is most likely getting bored of his current relationship where as he is always seeing you and talking to you in her place because you happen to always be there. So in conclusion if you like this boy you need to talk to him an basicly confess but you may want to hold out untill he is no longer in a relationship or if you think the timing is right you can tell him then. Hope i helped even if only a little! Good luck.

[Nicole]

You should ask him how he feels, find out if he's interested in you, he could just be being nice, but if your not comfortable with it, you should tell him. If he has no intentions on breaking up with his girl, you should tell him to stop calling you hot and stuff, you could develop feelings for him only to be crushed when he stays with his girlfriend. You should also try to become friends with this girl, she might get jealous and stop you two from being friends.