Hanging out with my "crush" for the first time tomorrow?!?

[anonymous]

I met this guy, call him tyler, through a friend. I went to the movies with her and we saw this guy there who she hugged, and told me they had known each other for awhile. Well he added me on facebook and now we have been talking as friends for about a week. I have developed a s crush on him, nothing serious though. Tomorrow my friend, tyler, my friends guy friend, and I are all going out to dinner and then hanging out at her house. I do find Tyler attractive, and would consider dating him if we talked more. But teenage guys obviously like to jump right into things, and I'm not like that. I like to take things slow and get to know them first. What if he tries to kiss me or something? I don't want to seem lame by telling him no.

[Nurax]

Well get to know him first then, not all guys are like that, i personally dont like jumping into things like that and im a guy.