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Does she like me more than as a friend?
10-16-2012, 07:04 AM
Post: #1
Does she like me more than as a friend?
So, there is this girl and Im not sure if she likes me more than just as a friend. Weve been friends for a while now. I became friends with her best friend at about the same time. So since we have become friends we have always done things together (me, her, and her friend). Things like go get coffee, go to the mall, the movies and out to dinner. I REALLY like her. Shes funny, pretty smart and beautiful. After six months, I asked her out. She was apprehensive and told me shed think about it. After a few days she said she didnt think it was a good idea. We went back to being friends like nothing happened.
Ill be the first to admit, I didnt do a good job. I wasnt confident enough and asked her too soon. Things went on being normal for the next few months. We didnt talk much in school. She would shyly saw hi when we passed each other in the halls and would occasionally talk. Sometimes, Id go sit by her in the library and we would sit there together, awkwardly, saying very little. But sometimes, she would be very flirty and mess with me computer, go through my things, and steal my books and make me chase her to get them back.
Then, at the end of the year, she wouldnt talk to me that much. She didnt want to do things with me alone. Out of nowhere, she wouldnt ride in the car alone with me. Later I suggested we do something together, and she wouldn’t respond to my texts. She told our friend she didnt want to do anything.
We went for about a month and a half without doing anything together. Her friend and I would hang out pretty frequently (her bestfriend is also like one of my bestfriends). Then one day I decided to text her something and we texted for a while. We were both in the market for cars, and began talking about that. A few weeks later, she asked me to look at a car 40 miles away with her. That was the first time we had really done anything together alone. That went really well. We talked a lot and like we never really had before. We texted a lot after that and all three of us went to the mall before I went on vacation out of the country. We went shopping at the mall and would she would flirt a bit with me. While I was gone, I texted her and when I got back her and I went car shopping again. This time I invited her. All told, we were together for about five hours and talked a lot and had a really good time. I wanted to go look at another car so I invited her and we went car shopping together again and spent a lot of time with one another. We went to lunch while we were together and went shopping briefly also.
Later that night, she wanted to hang out again so the three of us (me, her and our friend) went to the mall. Then we went to dinner and she was really nice and flirty with me. She kept taking my phone and playing with it, like she frequently does. She made me a facebook account with the name i<3amber as the name also. (used the name amber to make it easier)
On one occasion, her bestfriend mentioned to me that she thought Amber might ask me to a dance and on a separate occasion she said she could feel that Amber and I would “be together.” Since then school has started and she’s been friendlier than she had been before. She almost always responds to my texts and is a more touchy than before. There are a few guys she talks to but doesn’t flirt with them like she does me. They can be kind of touchy, but not in an ‘I like you’ sense. When it comes to her and I, we aren’t touchy much at all. That’s just not the way we are together. That’s why I found it out of the ordinary when she rubbed my face once and put her arm around my neck at lunch. We are planning, the three of us, on going on a trip together out of state before we go to college. Surprisingly, its been her that has been talking about it with me, not her friend. She also has written me notes when we’re in study hall saying she can’t wait for our trip and saying “I love you!!!!” She usually tells me she loves me after were done hanging out and stuff, in a joking kind of way. She’s been flirty the whole time we’ve known one another, but more recently she’s been much more flirty. She says were going to get married and flirts about us having sex. (I can tell shes not completely serious)
In school, a lot of people have been asking us if we are dating. Before when someone would ask, she would be quick to say no and have a disgusted look on her face. Now, she either just says no or will say something like “oh, we’ve tried before” sarcastically. Another guy said that when he asked us if we were dating she seemed happy and didn’t act weird or mad that he asked. As most people know, when you’re with someone you want to date and you get asked if you’re dating, it gets pretty awkward. I’m the only guy she ever really hangs out with outside of school. I REALLY want to ask her out but I don’t want her to say no. I dont want to make it weird if she says no and then I wouldnt be able to take her to prom or go on our trip.

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10-16-2012, 07:12 AM
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She probably does. Girls have many ways of manifesting their love for guys.

Can you please answer mine? It's about my accent.

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