Online FB friends gets depressed when I don't reply daily or chat with him dumps than readds me?

[Kimberly B]

I like to play games but don't really get on there much except for that. This friend 'defriended' me a couple of times complaining that " he felt left out etc etc cuz I didn't speak with him regularly... then he would later say 'sorry' had a rough patch and ask me to re-add him...finally, one day he threatened to do it again, and I said, enough! Seriously, you are a stranger and I'm so busy at the moment I'm not giving enough time to family and friends. If I say, that I'm busy accept that I'm truly busy and it has nothing to do with you . I also told him that if he needed loads of attention I definitely wasn't the right person, because I was really busy and he would always feel neglected so if he went ahead and defriended me again to consider it permanent. He did and I was basically relieved. Now again he is making friendship requests, sending me little gifts etc. I've ignored it and am actually on FB even less than before but every time I see one of his requests I feel a little guilty. He is a nice person but seems really needy. I'm in a relationship and uninterested in anything but friendship and frankly am unused to people guilting me over not daily sending notes!! So is ignoring okay... or am I being meanI feel like if I accept him as a friend again , I'll find a barrage of notes from him again asking why I don't write more often etc. and that he seems to really get upset and take online friendships seriously whereas I'm casual if I see someone I know I say 'hey' but am on their to talk to real life friends, family and most often just to relax and play games.

[Ann]

You are clear-the person can't get it.

[Zanty Shinrei]

yeah i had those kind of people...they stink.
sometimes the worst part is that they are okay outside, that you feel almost guilty ignoring him.


don't feel bad about blocking him. he has personal issues that only he could solve. it's not your fault he's doing what he did!

[Ryan]

Im going to speak from a personal and professional note here. personally i would not re-friend him. he seems a little obsessed with FB, and that is something that has always bugged me. FB is for keeping in contact with people you don't see often. Professionally you should not ever friend anyone you do not know personally. Many people use FB for criminally purposes. people will search through FB to find people who are near them that are not home on certain days so they know when they can break into their house. so people who are obsessed with certain people use FB to collect information and stalk them secretly. Some people use FB for blackmail, think about it, look at the information that you openly post of FB, is this really info that you would openly tell a complete stranger?

Well that's my 2 cents.

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