My guy best friend has withdrawn, not sure what to do?

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I love my guy best friend and he knows it however, he is depressed and has withdrawn socially.
We usually talk everyday, but I have not heard from him in 3 days yet he can post statuses on Facebook. He is in in the military and holds a high position but he told me that he is stressed and works long hours. He is also going through problems with his immediate family and on top of that he has new problems going on in his life (personal problems which I will not post). I feel so bad for him and try to encourage him and told him if he needs anything that I"m here for him. I've always been there for him and we go to graduate school together and we usually work on assignments together.

I do not want to push myself on him and want to give him space, however I'm worried about him and I texted him Friday no response and on Sunday no response. I do not want to be intruding do I just wait it out until he comes around? I also have a feeling that he has feelings for me but afraid to tell me.

advice!

[Kevin]

If you are his best friend and you are really close then you won't be intruding, as a best friend you are able to be harsh but true, caring, intruding but as long as it's all to help him then it's all okay and anything you do does just show you care, are there for him and are trying to help. I think the best thing to do if you are close enough is to go round his place when you know he's gonna be in and (depending on what sort of person he is) either tell him to man up an sort it out or force him to talk to you about it, show you're there and help him sort it out and fun his way back up, just confront him and no matter how frustrating it can get just be understanding and help him realise that he needs to make himself feel better, it's only him that can choose to do that, all you can do is support him and don't let him slip back down