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needy Capricorn guy? Advice?
05-26-2014, 11:50 PM
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needy Capricorn guy? Advice?
I started speaking to a Capricorn man, at first I really liked him, loved the chemistry between us, even though it was only via Facebook and texting. He seemed quite easy to get along with, but then he started becoming a bit too needy with me. Constantly messaging, getting offended if I don't message back instantly, checks to see when I've been online, starts telling me that I have had an impact on him and that he can't get me off his mind, that he's no longer interested in any other women and complimenting me every minute.
It's just too much for me, the weird thing is, is my last experience with a Capricorn man was the total opposite, he would blow hot and cold with me, seemed to have no emotions, didn't really have any respect for me, would of been more likely to of put me down rather than pay me a compliment unless he was getting sex from me at the exact minute.

I'm Aquarius and both of these ways are a turn off to me, but I actually really like this Capricorn if it wasn't for him being so needy like this, if we had met eachother then it would be a lot different, but the fact he is coming on so strong when we haven't met in person yet, is what is making me put meeting him on hold.

Anyone got any experience with needy capricorns and how to tell them they are coming on too strong and creeping me out a little without me hurting their feelings?

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05-26-2014, 11:50 PM
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yes I put up with one for 3 years. He was jealous, possessive, controlling, & insecure. Just tell him to relax, that you want to get to know him. Before I started dating the cap dude, we were friends only & got really close after hanging out day & night for months. He started falling for me & I told him I didnt see him as more than a friend, he would not back down, he would not take no for an answer lol. Tho I kept hanging out with him & seeing how much he liked me & cared for me, I started developing feelings & it went from there. I ended it after those 3 years because I felt like there was someone better out there for me. I knew he wasnt my 'one'.

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05-26-2014, 11:53 PM
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Im a Capricorn and its not just sun signs you need to look at when it comes to relationships moon signs also play an important role as they deal with emotcions and how you feel react to the world and situations Venus signs are also important as they show how you relate to loved ones friend family how you express love and for a man what kiend of woman your are going to be attracted to , i am a cap sun moon in Pisces and i can get a little clingy and come on strong when oli really like someone its insecurity make your affections known to him be honest and he will calm down you are an Aquarius , Aquarius is freedom loving and can be quiet aloof he probably isn't getting enough attention and reassurance off you beleave it or not caps need to know where they stand ad how you feel /expect of them it gives us stability and security and as earth signs we seak that especially in a partner we are envesting genuine time and effection , this other cap clearly had no real interest or feelings for you he was getting his security from somewhere else or obvs felt you were too aloof or not emotcionaly stable enough as a cap sun and ascendant i do this with girls who have hurt me and i have fear of opening myself to them so i put the barriers up he wasn't playing hot and cold he was genuinely trying to let his gaurd down but probably felt insecure as your an aquarius and probably didnt give him enough time and attention thats not your fault Aquarius are afaraid of being tied down by lovers and feel suffocated in relationships that are stable and have a routine they like there freedome too much you are a flexable sign who probably isn't gonna give this cao the grounded stable security he needs also check his moon sign this will count for alot good luck just speak to him and let him know where he and the relationship stands all he needs is a little re assurance
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