Relationship advice? Please help?

[Stuart]

My gf and I were together for 3 years and we then split up for a year just before she first went to uni. We both slept with other people
During that time so whilst I don't like the thought of her with another guy I accept and understand it, but... We have recently gotten back together and there is a an issue I am struggling with and need some advice on. One of the guys she slept with is on her uni course and sits with her group of people she sits with in lectures so she sees him quite regularly, another guy who she just fooled about with no sex works at the shop she works at at uni so she sees him quite regularly, and the second guy she slept with works at the store she works at when she comes home from uni so she sees him then. Am I right to not be happy about this and is it too intrusive for me to say I would be more comfortable if she deleted their numbers and deleted them from Facebook? I feel mean asking it but I want there to be some separation between what happened in the last year and our lives now. I feel like its only fair considering I don't see or speak to the people I slept with to ask her to get a degree of distance from them. What would you advise? Thank you in advance.

[Roses_are_red]

Of course its okay for you to be not happy, but its not fair of you to ask her to delete their numbers and facebook. It's your choice that you don't speak to the people you were with, so you can't expect her to follow suit.

[Jastria]

my advice, is move on. and you worth a better girl. don't be blind by just one girl. you just don't know there a lot better girls out there. what you need now is build your own charisma. and be a good social men. and know how to lead people around you. so girls will see you as a leader.

don't you worry about the past. once you find a better future, then you will leave the past as a lesson.

[Charlotte]

It's not unreasonable at all, i wouldn't be happy if my boyfriend did all that and still saw the girls :/ i think you should definately talk to her about it :/

[Jim]

This isn't going to work... You know that don't you! You will always think about it and it's just not going to work.

[Shannon]

You have every right to feel the way you do. But that won't change anything. I believe you need to try and break the relationship.

I know that's not what you want to hear but you asked for advice. You sound like a nice guy that really cares for that girl so before your heart gets shattered, try and pull yourself away. I know how women can be. And it's not always good. That's why I don't hang around with them. And I'm female.

Any relationship needs 3 things to work. Love. Communication, Trust. Even if the two of you stay together forever, you'll never be truly happy. You don't trust her. I don't believe you ever will.

Life is too short to live unhappily. You need someone that you don't have doubts about. I don't think she can ever be that someone for you.

[Ky]

I would say don't do it. Don't get back with her. Your insecurities about her with these other men is and will continue to eat you up inside during the course of the relationship with her. Keeping it bottled up will cause you to distrust her. There is no relationship without trust. Arguing will become more prevalent as time passes because of your insecurities and it will push her away to the other men close within her vicinity. Don't get back with her, unless you can swallow your insecurities and look past them. Otherwise, it will be nothing but destruction.