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my bf's ex gf still has his pic on her fb!!help:(?
05-27-2014, 10:48 PM
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my bf's ex gf still has his pic on her fb!!help:(?
recently i found out my bf ex still has his pic on her fbSad
they broke up 3 years ago but she still has the pics of their anniversary, the presents he gave her and things. but she keeps uploading her fb so it doesnt make sense that she has been forgetting to
delete those pics. i think that's her intention to show everyone she still misses him or something.
last year she called my bf few times but he didn't answer or contact with her.
should i tell her delete those pics or let her do whatever she wantsSad

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05-27-2014, 10:51 PM
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let her do whatever she wants. she was your bf's past.let the past remain in past.you are his present and thats all that should matter

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05-27-2014, 11:01 PM
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Most people delete pics of exs so my guess is she still has feelings for him, but you cant tell her to delete them because its her account,
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05-27-2014, 11:15 PM
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I'd say if your boyfriend isn't doing anything in response to her, ignore it. She's probably TRYING to get under your skin (and his, too.)
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05-27-2014, 11:28 PM
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It's her past, she can do whatever she wants with those pictures.

You need to not worry about it so much. They're just old pictures.
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05-27-2014, 11:36 PM
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Don't tell her anything. If your boyfriend has a problem with the pictures then he should be the one to tell her. But at the end of the day she can do whatever she wants with the pictures
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05-27-2014, 11:38 PM
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I guess she still may have feelings but I'm not too sure, my new guy has photos of his ex n him on his new phone. Which pissed me off ... But I realised that he wasn't into her , when we spoke about it,

He's quiet a soft guy and like keeping memories , maybe that what she is doing?
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05-27-2014, 11:46 PM
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You shouldn't be worried about it really, it would've been a problem if your boyfriend was still interested in her which according to you he isn't. So just let her do what she wants with her account, don't bother with her.
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05-28-2014, 12:02 AM
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No, leave her to her memories, those pics hurt her more than they help, ppl who live in the past, get left behind in life as everyone else moves on and creates a life/relationships they can build on, besides you've got the real thing and that's what counts.
As for fb, don't be going on her page, she can tell when you visit and it could be why she keeps them posted, to bother you because your with him and she can't get over it.
For many ppl, fb is all about "show and tell", which is a way of bragging. Ppl like that actually live on that page more than they do in their real life. The pics they post are about convincing others what a full life they have, what a fun, popular person they are, it's not about the reality in their life it's more about trying to impress others thereby making themselves look good and happy, most like her are not.
Ppl can play all the games they want, create all the lies through words and pics, but in the end, when their alone, they have to admit to the truth, admit their not who or what they claim to be, it's called facing yourself and the truth hurts.
By keeping his picture she has to face the fact every time she see's it that he's gone, chooses to be with someone else, that he over and finished with her, so believe me she's only punishing herself and stagnating.
Your life is real, so let her have her picture, it's the least you can do, think of her as a charity case you donated too.
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