Do I have the right to be mad when someone is clearly ignoring my texts and face book messages?

[047]

We have been on and off for few years and we live 4 hours apart.however we recently reconncted a month ago.He told me that misses me and he was having dreams about me.However after a while he was responding to my texts most of the time so I started to send him face book messages just to have a convo with him but 99 % of the time he would ignore me.I know that because on fb when a message is seen it shows.I know he could be busy so I would give him couple days to respond then he doesn't respond until I say something else then if I am luck he would respond but most of the time he would ignore me.However,he sent me a message last time that he might come to visit me the following week but he had to wait until he sees his schedule to be sure.Then I told him that I am booked to work those days but available the following week and if he is free we can meet up then. Well he didn't respond to this message.I messaged him and asked him few days later what days he is mostly available but he didn't respond to the message ofcourse it showed he read the message.I then waited fewdays and asked him how is work but he didn't respond to me.He is very active on fb so it was obvious that he was ignoring me I then lost my cool and snap and asked him why he is not responding to me and told him that I don't like how is treating me.Ofcourse he read the message and didn't respond to it.I then decided to delete him on my fb and haven't talked to him since.Did I overreacted

[Schuyler]

It's over. He didn't have the courage to tell you that, and you probably inundated him with messages. People resent being expected to respond on demand, learn from this and don't be so aggressive next time.

[Gruzinkerbell]

Sounds to me like he was enjoying the attention you gave him but he had no intention of giving anything back. He might have confidence issues and needed to be needed if that makes sense. You are better out of it, game players are always hard to please and you just exhaust yourself trying to make them happy. He needs to know that his behaviour is unreasonable as he has led you on, personally I think you were within your rights to say something, however you need to let it go now and move on.

[♥Sweet♥]

Not really. Just get over it and move on

[Tapestry6]

So he is not confrontational maybe he thought there was a spark left but your constant
messaging is annoying him and if he did say stop already you would be mad too.
Its a lose-lose situation for him

[chickadee34]

You have less right to be mad than you do to just let go of him and move on.

Honestly, after realising your messages were being seen, but not responded to, you should have taken the hint to let it drop. Instead, you apparently *upped* your messaging and then become angry at him, which only served to alienate him further and have you come across as desperate and pathetic.

I don't think you meant at all to come across that way. It's *more than* high time you stopped messaging and texting him, so NO, you didn't overreact at all. You merely were altogether *slow* to react. He's clearly no longer interested, so move on.

[Mushu]

As you were told the last time you asked this question, he is not interested in you. Take the hint and move on. Blowing up on him was quite immature.

[JustAKid]

I think he was trying to hint you. He probably didn't reply for a reason, and you kept messaging him.

[Julia35]

I think if you two were always off and on. Maybe, he thought you were on the same page as he. You know just see each other and have fun with benefits things. Maybe, that is how he thought the understanding was. After the last break up.