Threaded Mode | Linear Mode

Sarah · 05-29-2014, 04:51 AM

So me and my ex was together for about 7 months before I broke up with him. He was a liar and a cheater. Like 6 days after we broke up he got a girl. Two months past by he texts me then re follows me on every social network and because I turned him down he then unfollowed me on everything again even deletes my number. I'm mad because I gave him everything! I was nothing but a good gf to him never cheated or anything and he knows that. Well his new girl everytime they break up she begs him for them to stay together, now realize she does know he has cheated on her with other girls. He never unfollows her on twitter but with me when we was together he ALWAYS unfollowed me. When we was together he gave me the password to his twitter account I don't think he remembers anymore. Anyways like I said I'm mad and I want to unfollow everyone on his account because of how he hurt me. Is that wrong?

leggos · 05-29-2014, 05:02 AM

Don't get involved. You broke up. Just let him go and move on to guys who are nicer and don't cheat. If you unfollow on his account you will stooping to his level, he may remember he gave you his password and this will be war. What's the point? if you know you don't want him and he hurt you, don't think about him and move on!!!

Bella · 05-29-2014, 05:09 AM

Don't do childish things and move on you can do better(:

Terry · 05-29-2014, 05:24 AM

You are right.He thinks doing this to his girlfriend theres nothing wrong with it hes a dog

Jo · 05-29-2014, 05:34 AM

Of course, it's wrong.

It's revenge and your way of just wanting to get back at him.

Your story is typical of a million breakups. One "gives everything" and the other either doesn't appreciate it or cheats anyway or is essentially a jerk.

It's called "that's life".

Grow up, forget about him and move on. And don't do anything stupid and juvenile.

That is called taking the high road and be the better person.

Patricia · 05-29-2014, 05:43 AM

I think you need to do a few things in your life... first, perhaps consider no revenge against others.

Hon, it was your choice to stay with this guy while he cheated. It was also your choice to over-extend and "give him everything"! When we are with a guy, and he cares for us, he will treat us like we are the most important person in his life. If he doesn't treat us this way, we are not the most important person. So, if we stay, we are only hurting ourselves. No one is going to change because we are a GREAT GIRLFRIEND! Each person is an individual - they are who they are. And no one changes unless they have an inner desire to do so!

This guy is non-committal and doesn't know how to treat a lady yet... he may never. It's his problem, not yours.

Leave his account alone. And move on! You are living in the past instead of right now. Right now he's out of your life.. .and you keep reeling him back in and opening up old wounds. I wonder why you're torturing yourself.