Why does everyone hate me?

[Adam]

I'm 13, weak, and not really smart. I try to get myself into groups or friends but everyone doesn't seem to care about me. My own brother wouldn't even accept my friend request on Facebook but I guess that's just brother love. I have homicidal thoughts/attendencies but everyone thinks I'm suicidal/emo. Well I guess God just picked me as one of the failures of his projects..Which is why I stopped believing in him, after my mom died when I was 10. So why does EVERYONE hate me so much? I like being alone but not lonely. I just want some friends before my whole future is ruined.

[pr15952]

junior high is the worst for anyone. get to high school and start partying!
oh and don't kill ppl you nut

[Milan]

Life is a test and god has a plan
Put your faith in god, be patient and you will see

[Sam]

If you are in middle school, that's just how it is for lot of people. Just wait until you get into high school or college and you'll eventually find a group of friends who you identify with. For now just try to act confident. (when I got into high school I realized that girls will actually flirt with you a lot more if you act confident and maintain a good posture, even if you are not great looking)

[Andrew Welsh]

I think none hates you. In the life is very common those kind of things, but it does not mean you are a failure of God's projects. Moreover, you should not care about what the others think. I am sure you are a great boy. Just think that it is gonna happen some day no far away. It is normal.
God loves you.

[Someone]

That is not true, guy! If people hate you, that's because they don't know who you really are!
Your day will come, and you will have everything...

[sfarooq]

Dont worry, lots of people feel that way at your age. Sometimes, its also because when wants attention and love so much, they expect TOO much from others and usually others cannot live upto that level. im not saying that theres something wrong with you-but in vulnerable, sensitive times our perceptions of how people deal with us is too heightened and our expectations too great. My advice is, try not to focus on looking for love and acceptance from other-do things which will boost your own morale and self esteem....things which will make you feel good and happy. Once u reach a point when ure feeling the BEST about yourself, then try to move back into making friends and getting into groups. its best to have people who are new in your life like new friends and all judge you for who you are when ure feeling your best instead of them labelling you for being someone they see when u are feeling the worst. Spend time with yourself right now. ps:your brother might not have accepted your request because he wants his own privacy on facebook and theres nothing wrong with that...lots of boys and girls want privacy on their facebook from their families dont let things like these make you feel that theres something wrong with you.