My ex blocked me and we weren't even friends online?

[Gludy]

Okay my ex and I broke up in the beginning of August and we ended in good terms and wished each other the best and to live well. We haven't talked since and we broke up before around May and I deleted him from facebook. And today I noticed he blocked me and I don't understand why because I did not do anything to him at all, I haven't even talked to him since. I thought I was over him but this just got me upset. I don't understand why he would do that? My profile isn't private like my friend's friends can still see it and we have come mutual friends. What do you guys think?

[Michelle]

you deleted him off so he blocked you he
took a revenge on you

[mandi b]

He probably did it to stop himself from going on your page. He was probably going on your facebook daily still and he probably got upset every time now he may want to move on.

[brayden]

So he blocked you...SO WHAT? He is your ex. He doesn't owe you a friendship or anything else. Especially if you deleted him, maybe he honestly didn't want to hear from you and is over you. What is wrong with that? If you are over him then just be OVER it and move on. You can't control what other people do and that is just life.

Not all exes make good friends. That is just a fact you will have to accept if you choose to date anyone. Not all relationships work out and most of us have a few failed ones before we find the right person. That means learning how to make an ex your EX for good. That includes being classy, not posting insults online and going on with your life. Would you rather have him block you or say bad things about you? It could be worse.

So-called "social" networks should really be called "anti-social networks" because there really isn't anything social about them. If you are on something like Facebook, it should be for fun...like finding old friends, or staying in touch with your friends or family, OR it should be for business. When you use it to look up exes and enemies that is just asking for trouble.

Why should you be upset over someone being done with you when you were already done with them? It sounds like your ego is wounded here more than anything else. Maybe part of you still misses him and that is okay. Just understand he is a free person. He can choose to block you...And you can choose to care or NOT care! The choice is yours. Good luck!

[Emily]

Sounds EXACTLY what happened to me and my ex. I deleted him off Facebook when we broke up, and a couple weeks later I tried to search him and nothing came up - he had blocked me. It doesn't really make sense to me either, but what I can rationalize it with is that he likely was hurt by that, and wanted to either a) have the upper hand (blocking you being more significant than just deleting) or b) trying to hurt you. Either way, don't get upset by it. You guys aren't together and there is no difference between being blocked/deleted, even though being "blocked" seems a bit more permanent and hurtful...but it really isn't. Either way, he isn't in your life. Keep moving forward and do not get caught up in this