Am I being abused?

[Love]

I have been talking to this guy for 7 months. He tried to get me pregnant and everything. We work together and he gets very jealous if I talk to someone at work. There is this guy at work who I talk to every day almost. Well my ex went up to him and asked him were we having sex then he told the guy I was crazy and annoying. He does this with everyone I try to talk to like he tries to ruin it. I texted him and told him he doesn't own me and he can't control me and he said "lmao". The funny thing is he has a gf now but he is so obsessed with what I do. He told me he doesn't want any guys or girls riding around in my car. He told me he knows everything that I do. He said he has cameras everywhere. I feel like I'm being abused but idk. Like it makes me paranoid and anxious all the time! Is this abuse? I texted him and told him to kiss my butt for asking that guy have we had sex. And he replied with "leave me alone you getting on my nerves."

[Under Siege]

Yeah, that's some pretty hardcore harassment. Report him for his conduct in the workplace, and get him fired. Go to the police and bring up your concerns; they'll have a chat with him that'll shorten his leash real quick- then avoid all contact. Do not text him, no matter what- block his number, block him on social media. Report him for further contact in the future.