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How to talk to a guy that you've never talked to and really like?
05-30-2014, 08:32 AM
Post: #1
How to talk to a guy that you've never talked to and really like?
So I really like this guy we are both 20 years old. He sits next to me in one of my classes and I kinda fell in love with his personality based on what I've seen so far and I really want to get to know him more. The was he looks is so cute! It's definitely the look I go for! And he just an all around great guy from what I see... I never really talked to him but I want to! His twitter came up under "people also like...." When I followed one of my friends... I was gunna follow him on twitter but I don't want it to be awkward... And I'm really shy so it's not like me to just go up to a guy I like and start talking to him!...What should I do? Forget about him or try something? No sarcastic answers please!!

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05-30-2014, 08:43 AM
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Well, since he is sitting next to you, I don't find it awkward or too much of an effort to tell him that you've seen him on Twitter and ask him if he would be OK if you "connect"...
You may be shy, I "buy" that, but cannot be THAT shy at twenty years old!

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05-30-2014, 08:49 AM
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Either give him a reason to talk to you (in a non creeper way), or find an excuse to talk to him. Try and ask what time it is (this can sound really irrational if you have a phone though ahah), or if he knows where the science or biology, etc. building is. Or better yet, ask him for help on a problem in the class, mutual attritions and problems are what the majority of people find in common and is how the majority of people even meet! Find mutual grounds with him and work with that!

Good luck on whatever youre trying to accomplish, Hope this helps!
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05-30-2014, 09:02 AM
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Um... I hate to say this, but are you really going to let a potential future boyfriend go just because you are shy? I mean from what you just stated you like him, he is your type, and you want to get to know him.

Riddle me this sweetheart... how in the heck are you going to get to know him if you are too dang shy to talk to him? I'm not trying to be sarcastic, but just so you know, you have to talk to somebody to get to know them. That is how this works, you talk to him: you get to know him. You don't talk to him: you don't get to know him. And what Is worse he doesn't get to know you either.

So I think the answer to you question is pretty simple... if you want date him or want to be even known to his own little world TALK TO HIM! Forget that you are shy, it is not going to help you in this. and don't use that as a shield for you to not talk to him, stating that you shy is just a cop out.

Think this to yourself... your shy right? so your too shy to go to a interview for a job as your suppose to speak to get the job? or for college interview you have to talk to get accepted. So your to shy to do that? I think not, then your not to shy to talk to a man who could be a potential husband in the future.

Grow some boobs and talk to him XD FIGHTING!!
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