Why has my ex boyfriend got a girlfriend only a couple of weeks after he dumped me????? ADVICE PLEASE!!!!!!!!!?

[Amy]

I met a guy on a dating site in June who I started dating... He was coming up to a study period and asked me out at the beginning of it. Since we were in a relationship, I texted him etc during this period and he really liked me to begin with but he started disliking the fact I was trying to talk to him throughout this month (even though he was meant to be my boyfriend). After the study period ended, I went to see him and he was rude to me and made no effort to be a good boyfriend/make up for all the time I had waited around for him.

From then on he begun dumping me and asking for me back, each time he said we could work it out. But the longer it went on, he started being more rude. In the end he dumped me for good and said he really, really disliked me and that he thought I was not pretty etc. (This was about 3 weeks ago).

The other day he told me hes already got a new girlfriend and that I should never speak to him again/that he really hated me. I mean I had noticed that towards the end he had been using the dating site alot that we met on. But he said this new girlfriend he met in a restaruant (I think he met her on the site). I thought he was lying and he said he really REALLY likes her. He says they met recently and he asked her out (the same he did to me). I've just seen he has got a picture of him and her IN HIS ROOM as his facebook profile picture (he took one in the same pose of me and him when we started dating URGH). He never had a picture of us as his profile picture.. Anyway the girlfriend is real. I'm really mad that he must have started seeing her when he was still asking to see me (a couple of weeks ago) because he was saying to me we can be friends/I will take you for a nice meal.

Is he going to do the same to her as he did to me? Hes lovely to begin with but then turns really picky and even admitted to me he has a short temper. Why has he asked her out after a couple of weeks like he did with me? Is he completely desperate for a girlfriend?

[Goat Whacker]

He needs a companion. He might also want to play the field before he settles down with you.

[Butterfly]

If I were you I would forget him and move on, then next time find someone a bit more level headed and mature!

Don't be a mug with guys, let them do the running and the moment they let you down, drop them!

[Lydia]

He's a jerk. He'll probably do the same thing with the girl he is currently going out with. Forget about him, you can do much better!

[PrincessTia]

If he is that stupid to treat a lady like that then let him do it. Plus, he sounds a bit of a player so i bet the new girlfriend knows whats he is like, let her learn from her own mistakes. Besides, if you go and say something to her about him she will probably start spreading rumours about how your jealous and all. Move on, and forget him, he sounds like a idiot anyway.

[nonchalant_muse]

Not really sure why you care and seem to be so obsessed with this guy. He's a jerk, he treated you badly and said such nasty things, so why even waste time on him? He'll probably do the same thing to other women he dates (a leopard does not change its spots, so to speak) best to just move on and be glad he's out of your life.

[Friendlydock476]

Why would u want to date someone like him look at everything he said and did to u.. IMO u dodged a bullet

[Leanne]

What does it matter what his motives or situation is? Its been a short lived relationship that frankly never really took off. He treated you quite badly, and quickly moved on to someone else. I wouldn;t waste any time trying to analyse his personality or his chess moves with the next girl. There's a chance he two-timed with both of you, and he certainly seems quite shallow if not a player. I'd forget about this guy as soon as you've able, and find someone else who will commit and make you feel happy.

[Poppet]

He is your Ex. Stop thinking about him and what he does. Focus on yourself.

[Aria]

Get over it.