Should I break up with my boyfriend because he is best friends with a girl?

[267]

Okay so everytime I try to bring it up to her to talk about it she's like "OMG Alyssa were just friends stop getting mad for stupid shit!" Like idk what to do I mean I trust him a lot but I don't trust her and I'm not the only one who thinks she likes him but whenever I ask she says no is she lying to me? Like idk what to do and sometimes she's like "fine I won't be his friend anymore.." I mean I do get mad when they are not friends cause they seem sad to me so it makes me feel like I'm the bad guy but at the same time I hate them being friends it's like so hard and she has him in her bio and it's "Eduardo😏" and she sometimes posts their convo on Instagram is she doing that on purpose ? Like Idk what to think because at first I don't want them to be friends and I told her that and she like fine I won't but then I get mad because I feel like I'm the bad guy and they always seem sad when they are not friends like IDK WTF do please help me

[Seaglass34]

it does sound like she's being a bit of a b'''h but at the same time she is your boyfriends friend and as you said, you trust him and he is upset when they aren't friends.

I think you may need to just have a little more faith in your partner. even if she makes a move at him is he going to respond? if he does then just dump him, it isn't worth staying with a cheater and you don't need that. if he turns her down all the better, you've found yourself a good man. just let him be the judge and stop interfering otherwise he could well turn on you.

[Sally]

Talk to your boyfriend about it. To me it sounds like she likes him..

[Breanna Medek]

You should probably talk to him and tell him how you feel about it. Just whatever your comfortable with.. If u trust him enough then it shouldn't bother you.

[Chiara]

The worst thing you could do is show jealousy or give hints of it. That will make girls want to step all over you even more because they know how sensitive you are and what makes you sensitive. Act like nothings wrong and show the boy you aren't jealous, because I actually read online that boys don't like when girls show jealousy towards eachother. I know it's hard because these two are close, but trust me I have plenty of friends in your position. Sorry if I keep saying "jealous" you may not be jealous but just annoyed and I understand, but just in my opinion either confront them both calmly or just see how it goes with out showing you care. Hope this helps

[518]

Maybe she's trying to steal him from you..

mine?
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[Salena]

It sounds like she likes him! In my opinion, I think guys and girls can never just be "friends" there's always some attraction.You should definitely tell your boyfriend how you feel! Communicate with him if you truly want your relationship to work!

[ALondoner]

He's your boyfriend for a reason. Had he wanted to be her boyfriend, he would've left you ages ago, but he didn't. He stayed as your boyfriend. Don't feel insecure about it, just because she's trying to wave their friendship around doesn't mean she'll be the one to have the guy.

But if things do go wrong, so what? Bid them farewell and good riddance! You wouldn't want a guy as weak as to leave someone as boss as you, now would you?
x

[dnd163]

No. Why do people always ask these questions. The way I see it is that if they are friends with a person, does it really matter what their gender is? The only reason I can see you breaking up with him is because your jealous of her.