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My new fuck buddy likes to cuddle and asked if I would be okay if he spends the night...thoughts?
05-31-2014, 03:55 PM
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My new fuck buddy likes to cuddle and asked if I would be okay if he spends the night...thoughts?
Short Background story
Met online - ended up knowing each other from our childhood summer camp - hit it off - sexual chemistry is amazing - it has only been one week.

Present
So I am tripping! I have had a handful of fuck buddies (will be referred to as 'fb'), but this time it is throwing me a curve ball. We have only had sex 3 times, but he likes to cuddle (before and after sex). I guess I am not really used to a fb who likes to get more intimate like that so it was a little awkward at first. Also, he asked if it would be okay if he spent the night sometime. I was kinda like(to myself), "Is this guy for real?!" Because I have never asked a fb to stay the night nor have I ever been asked. But he really seems to wanna do it. And he reallllllllly likes cuddling and initiates it. And he texted me that he "really likes me,____(my name)" Another thing that has me confused (not that I am complaining), but he had period sex with me toniht!! I consider period sex a pretty intimate thing (don't you?), or he is just THAT horny! LMAO
So I typically just have a wall up going into these type of relationships b/c the couple times I have allowed more feelings, I have gotten hurt. I never thought I would be the one who was like WHOA SLOW DOWN.
I do think there could be more than sex. I guess the way we met and started having sex so quickly makes me skeptical. Which I think is reasonable. But it is not unreasonable to think that someone would be into to me for real.
I think time will tell, but for now I am confused with this guy. What does telling me he likes me and wants to cuddle with me and spend the night gonna do? I wanna have sex either way. He doesn't really gain much extra so there is a chance it could be true that he really wants those things.
What are your thoughts? Could he really be that into me already? Maybe he is not into me at all and rather, just misses those things? Maybe he is just feeling it out, seeing it it feels right and good? I thought cuddling and spending the night was a lot more than fb?

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05-31-2014, 04:01 PM
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yep he could like you or he is just desperate for sex. lol

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05-31-2014, 04:03 PM
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He likes you more than a &quot;fb&quot;. If you have no desire to pursue the relationship further I would cut him loose. Not everyone is capable of being strictly sexual with someone else.
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05-31-2014, 04:19 PM
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He may just &quot;miss those things&quot;. I see nothing wrong with cuddling. And if the sex is &quot;so amazing&quot;, he may just be too exhausted to get up, get dressed then drive home. I really think you are making assumptions.
He sounds great! Perhaps a blowup doll is a better fit for you.
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