She got upset because I flirted with another girl. But she cheated on me 3 years ago?

[890]

3 years ago we dated and she cheated on me. We broke up and that was it. Last I heard from her was like 2 years ago. I was having a b-day party and I invited everyone from FB. My ex is my fb friend but that never really crossed my mind. She sent me a message asking if she could come and bring some friends. I said sure, why not?

I have no ill feelings towards her. What happened, happened. We were young, stupid and everybody makes mistakes. At the party she brought a few girlfriends. I got along well with one of her friends and we were flirting quite obviously. I saw my ex give me this look. She was upset and took her jacket and left. I ran after her and asked her what's going on. She said: "I came here hoping we could start over and you run off to my friend". I told her: "Sorry but I didn't know that. You and I are not going to get back together. We tried it all those years ago and honestly you f*****d up. But I have no resentment towards you. $hit happens. I can offer you my friendship but nothing more". And now because the girl I flirted with doesn't want to see me because of my ex. So I got two f**k yous. What do I do here?

[?]

Nothing for you to do. She's not going to be happy but you're not interested in her anymore. I say good for you and I hope something positive comes out of this. You had every right to flirt with this other girl and your ex seems a bit delusional.

[Cosmini]

Forget both of those bitches. You seem like a cool dude, you don't need that shit.

[Jeremy]

Yea dude. Nothing you can do here. I'd try to reach out to the girl you flirted with to see if she was still interested, but I wouldn't give a rat's a$$ what your ex thought. Forget her. If she's not interested in something with you, move on.

[Dee]

well you did great telling of you ex like that (proud of you) and as to the other girl maybe she's being a good friend by not talking to her friends ex (you) or your ex is talking shi+ about you to her so she wont give you a chance but maybe try and talk to her one more time and if it doesnt work out move on i wish you the best of Luck =)

[Elsie]

Your ex is immature and you are well rid of her. She should have told you before the party that she wanted to try again, but she didn't. If she had, you could have told her privately that you weren't interested, she could have not come to the party and this entire situation would have been avoided.

The friend is just being a good friend...she doesn't want to upset her more by pursuing the flirtations with you. For future reference, it's never a good idea to hit on an exes friend unless you've talked to them first and they're ok with it.

If you're friends with the friend on facebook, send her a message saying you're sorry and explain how you had no idea the ex was interested in getting back together, so she knows you weren't just flirting to piss the ex off. If she's interested, she'll make the next move. But don't go chasing her. If she doesn't respond, let ti drop.

You might want to message the ex too, and explain that you weren't trying to make her jealous or mad, but you're sincerely not interested in trying again.