PLEASE HELP - no one is answering?

[Samantha]

My ex and I were really good friends.
We got into a big argument in January/beginning of February and we didn't talk for 2 months.

We play in the same soccer league, and about a month ago, I stopped him to tell him I wanted to talk to him, and he said he couldn't.

Last weekend (not this past one), he messaged me on Facebook (he blocked me, so he unblocked me) saying: "you said you wanted to talk the other day? I'm listening…"
So we were kind of talking, and I guess I wasn't saying what he wanted to hear so he stopped responding and blocked me again.


THEN on Saturday, I guess he unblocked me and messaged me saying "i try being friendly with you but the way you act sometimes just annoys the hell out of me…"
So we were texting, and then he texts me: "just that I wish we could be chill, but that seems like hopeful wishing"

So I replied with "it doesn't have to be hopeful wishing.."
And then he goes "maybe you're right, but at this point with the way I am and the way you are it is… and before it comes up if it ever comes up, I'd like to make it clear that I have no intentions to date you again"

I don't want to date him now anyways, since I want to study abroad


But we ended up having dinner later that night

Why would he want me in his life if he didn't want to be with me again..?


He was clearly thinking about me last week.
But loser hasn't accepted my follow on Instagram or friend request lol...

[Symbolic User]

he just wanted you as a friend only

answer my question?
https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index...841AAgo7Cz

[Mila]

I think either he feels bad for ignoring/blocking you, OR maybe he just wants to start talking again. He might not want to date you if he said that but there might be a chance he's just saying that because he doesn't want to be the one to admit wanting to get back with you. But I think it's the first suggestion

[lisa]

Well why do you want him in your life? It's exactly the same thing. If you don't want to be with him again, then why are you going out for dinner with him? Ask yourself the same question and there's your answer.

Sometimes you get to know somebody so well whilst you're an item that you feel like it would be a big loss, as though you have to be friends since you know everything about one another and this may be the case. Since you have history he wants you to stay friends.