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Can I please have a woman's perspective?
06-01-2014, 05:27 PM
Post: #1
Can I please have a woman's perspective?
I hit on this girl on FB. I told her is like to get to know her. She said sure and then after a few messages I got no reply. I hot her back up a month later, this time asking her about her volunteer work and that I like to get involved. After that I got her attention and we even met for coffee to talk about joining the group.

When we met up she went for a hug which I was not expecting. I thought this was a good thing, as I have only one pic on my FB this maybe was a sign she saw me as attractive. We talked a bit about music and interests. She's been trying to get together with me and wants to work with me on doing a film night for her group as she knows I am interested and am a film major.

My question is 1) she does still remember I was hitting on her at first. Does she think I'm just trying to get to know her and letting me or just forgot? 2)Also does she sound intersted?

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06-01-2014, 05:38 PM
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I think that she's definitely interested because, as you said, she's been trying to meet up with you. I think you should meet up with her and just spend time with her. You could ask her out on a date! Good luck!

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06-01-2014, 05:48 PM
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I am not a woman so I&#x27;m not qualified to answer this question. Facebook saves messages, even chat messages.
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06-01-2014, 06:03 PM
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I'm not a female, but you can learn from someone who has made lotsa mistakes.
One of the weakest qualities guys have with women is, the ability to hold a conversation. The secret to a conversation is asking a fun and simple question that a girl would enjoy answering. Example: "I like your fingernail color. What color is that?" She says: "Ocean spray blue." You reply: "I knew you were going to do that. As a guy I would have said light blue, but women always 'detail' their colors. Do girls get 'special training" on colors or what?" She'll giggle and give you an answer. Ask her to name another color. Now you have her in a conversation. If you keep smiling the whole time, she will smile because you are smiling. She doesn't know you like her or are Interested or are Scared. All She sees/knows is that a guy is talking to her and seems to be enjoying her company, "Being Friendly". Relationships start like this. Boyfriend/Girlfriend couples exist because one of them took a chance and spoke up.
"SOMEONE" has to make the first move, even if you're SCARED TO DEATH, regardless of age.
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