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I have a crush on a girl and I'm a girl too :/?
06-02-2014, 08:46 AM
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I have a crush on a girl and I'm a girl too :/?
there's this girl who i've been friends with for a year from school. we've had a lot of classes together but this semester we don't have any classes. however, i still see her every week at least twice or three times. she occasionally texts me that she misses me. but saturday while she was at work she texted me "Miss you <3" but I LITERALLY saw her the day before and the one before that too...so how can I be missed already? it just seems overly friendly. it's kind of confusing me because not even my really close friends tell me they miss me as much as she does.

and on valentines day she texted me "Happy valentines day" with a bunch of emoticons which she sent out to other friends too but when i replied back she ended up screenshotting my text message and uploading it on her instagram with a caption that read "<3 she made my day #loveofmylife" and this is before she uploaded anything about her and her boyfriend on v-day.

when we went out on st.pattys day i caught her staring at me through the corner of my eye for like 4 seconds. so when i looked toward her, we made quick eye contact. i smirked at her and she smiled and looked away. it caught my attention, at that moment. she would also often say to me "you're cute" in a friendly way. and one time she even took a picture of me just because she thought i looked really cute and then uploaded it on to her instagram.
so she knows I'm bi-sexual. and sometimes i feel like she says or does things to get a reaction out of me. but am i wrong to question the possible interests she could have for me?

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06-02-2014, 08:52 AM
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That&#x27;s normal she maybe think your her best friend.

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06-02-2014, 09:02 AM
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She&#x27;s a lesbian 100 percent
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06-02-2014, 09:05 AM
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Give this some time, and wait! Relationships take time, somtimes too much time. But the outcome might be completely worth it. I understand I'm not a girl, but if i was a gay (btw there's nothing wrong with being gay, lesbian, or bi-sexual) that I would just give myself some time to accept MYSELF, and then move on to finding someone who has same feelings for me Smile If there was a really attractive guy, and he was secretly gay, then i would just talk to him alot more, hint that I like him, keep talking, and then pop the question once enough time has gone by AND you know that you're partner knows what's coming, hope this helped in SOME way! haha, goodluck Smile
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06-02-2014, 09:18 AM
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There's nothing wrong with liking a girl totally normal but also your just being aware that you might be BI and there's nothing wrong with that at all. Next time you talk to her hold her hand and see how she reacts or do skin ship. The Question here is "Do You really like her?" it seems in my point of view that your friend may like you a lot by the text messages and screenshots not just that but when you made eye contact. Keep looking out for those signs ah try making her slightly jealous by talking to others girls or boys and see her reaction also ask her how things are going with her boyfriend and if she says something about wanting to break up with him cause she likes someone close to her then that may be a sign she likes you back. Also you liking her back is totally normal there are people out there who realize that they may like their best friend and don't even tell them because they don't want to see their reaction or worse that they will laugh at them. Don't be scared and ask her whats up. Just simply ask"Hey do you like some one?" and listen to her well she may or may not. But this makes me think that she does. Also there's nothing wrong with liking an another girl, I'm not Bi or anything but I think that sexuality shouldn't be judged. Good luck wish you the best truly.
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