My girlfriend went behind my back on fb?

[152]

Ok so for the past months me and my gf decided not to have a fb so we closed both of them, 4-5 months later i find out she has been logging in to her fb without telling me, i was and still am a bit pissed off, should i be mad or should i brush it off, im a bit of a hot head and i dont wanna over do my reaction
Can someone offer some advice, be completely honest

[Blue Planet]

So you're so insecure about yourself that you're jealous of the Internet seriously?

[Emma]

Well it depends what she was doing on Facebook. If she just got on to read friends who live far away/ family members statuses you shouldn't be mad. But if she was using it to message other guys, even in a friendly way, yes. She shouldn't have kept it from you in the first place no matter what she was doing though.

[koko]

You should brush it off. Don't spend time being angry at that, it's so small and harmless. She could be doing way worse things behind your back. You have nothing to worry about. Let it go and move on.

[Star]

I would b mad too I have a boyfriend who has done that with facebook and he was talking to his exs and other girls too behind my back. So I know exactly how u feel. I kept catching him and he kept promising to quit. He would get off facebook for like a month and then he would do it again. She's probably gonna do the same thing and talk to guys behind ur back. Why else would she get on facebook without telling u? That's what my boyfriend was doing. He was talking to girls and getting some of their numbers. So yeah I would be mad ur not overreacting. It's pure disrespect to u. U both agreed not to do it and u kept ur end of the deal and she didn't. She went behind ur back and that's disrespectful. I know exactly how it feels and it doesn't feel good at all.

[Chen Li Yong]

If you love somebody, you don't try to make her to be somebody else. You don't try to take her usual daily activities. You don't try to take her usual environment. You DO have to "absorb" her environment, and make it yours. Make her friends, your friends. Make her hobby, your hobby. Of course to a certain extend. But what you say you do at the beginning is not even healthy. Love and trust work together. Why you've suddenly decided to not have a fb? It's out of my mind! I and my gf (now my wife) aren't exchange our fb password, but we do occasionally share what's interesting happened in our own fb. I don't have interest in knowing her "private life" in her fb, and she isn't too, for we know that our "private life" in fb IS the same with our life together. if you can't trust your gf to even that extend, you're in a very deep insecurity. a man who's secure with himself will allow his gf to has her own "private life", knowing that there's nothing she would do in "private life" to cheat him off, EVEN if he already has experience like that with his ex(s).