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I still love my ex boyfriend. Should i tell him?
11-09-2012, 08:20 AM
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I still love my ex boyfriend. Should i tell him?
We were together for 5 months and broke up about 6 months ago, but i'm still in love with him. i don't really know why he broke up with me, he says it was because we're "different" but when i ask how, he just says "its hard to explain". we go to the same school, have some classes together and are in the same group of friends, but we never talk and it's awkward. I've tried to talk to him on Facebook just as friends a couple of times (because i'm too shy to talk to him in real life) but he's really blunt and just gives one word answers etc. so i don't think he feels the same.
I'm kind of bored of ignoring my feelings now and i want to try to get him back as it's not getting any better with time. should i tell him how i feel? what should i do?

thanks in advance

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11-09-2012, 08:29 AM
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Tell him how you feel. Tell him if he does'nt feel the same then youu wait for him. Thats what my friend did. and its working!(: If he had true feelings for youu then he still has them because true feelings never go away. It might take a little while , but its worth it, right?

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11-09-2012, 08:29 AM
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Just forget about him. He is not into you and does not want to hurt your feelings. Just try to stop thinking of him. If you want be brave and tell him how you feel. Depending on the response you can move on with your life.
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11-09-2012, 08:29 AM
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No, I don't think you should tell him. He obviously does not reciprocate your feelings...you're aware of this. Some huge outpouring of emotion on your part will just make him want to avoid you even further. Unfortunately we're conditioned by Hollywood to think some huge dramatic outpouring of love will convince someone they want to be with us. Actually, the opposite is true. That makes the person say "Yikes!!! Get me out of here!!!" The fact that you've tried to chat him up several times and his response was to give blunt one word answers...which is discouraging you without come out and saying...."Get lost!" says volumes. If he was interested in getting back together with you, he would have responded more favorably. If you were to flat out tell him you still love him, he will just think you're pathetic. It will not get him back. Instead of trying to think of ways to get him back you need instead to figure out ways to get over him. It can be really hard when you share classes and friends because many times the best way to get him out of you head is to have no contact with him. This isn't an option for you. The best thing you can do is limit contact with him. Try not to hang out with your friends when he's there, and try to sit in class where you can't see him. Ask if you can change your seat if that's not currently possible. Trust me, I've been there and I know you're hurting. I know you didn't like what I have to say, but it is the truth based on my experience. If a guy wants to come back to you, he has to come back on his own without you pursing him. The more you pursue him, the more he'll stay away.
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11-09-2012, 08:29 AM
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Texting or talking on Facebook is not a strong way to appeal. Go and talk to him directly and say that you like him and you should get back together. If he says yes, then good..and never let go of him. If he says no, then forget him, just be friends(don't feel awkward) and have a move on. Just don't hesitate, it is certainly worth a try...
Just think about what you really want before making any decision..
Good luck to you, hope everything works out well.. Smile
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11-09-2012, 08:29 AM
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It never hurts to try. its better to know than to not know. Even though he may not be interested, he could miss you possibly. Do what your heart wants. Obviously you still have feelings for him. The worst possible thing is he says no. At least you tried : D best of luck to you. Could you answer mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...421AAi58D4
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