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itsgamblintime · 06-04-2014, 08:03 AM

Does it sound normal for a girl who leaves a guy she had been involved with for close to 2 years, move away across the country for grad school and, not wanting a L-D relationship. She gets to her school, meets someone else in her program, tries to stay in touch with the guy back home and then when she tells him about the new guy, he isn't happy and basically stops communicating with her. She tried every so often to get in contact with him thorugh FB or texts, even sending a pic of her cat to get his attentnion, with little luck. After a couple of months, her and the new guy breakup, get back together a few weeks to a month later and then it ends again after 2-3 months again. After that she tries even harder to get in touch with the guy back home, he responds, but not with much haste or shows very little interest. She's always liking and commenting on his FB posts, but he never does anything on her wall. She was on a few dating sites from the spring up until recently, now she is back with the guy at her school again. Weird thing is, it seems like she likes to put up a profile pic of the two of them if they start dating again. This time she put up a pic that she had used last JAnuary, which seemed strange. She got off the dating sites as well. Does this sound normal? Does she miss the guy back home? Why get back together with the guy at school for what looks like a third time? Is there actually truly something there that couldn't keep them apart?

helpingfoy · 06-04-2014, 08:13 AM

I think the girl missed the old guy and she herself knows that the guy at school is not so good.

Bo · 06-04-2014, 08:21 AM

For this girl looks like she really loved the guy back home, To bad she took that for granted and did not want a L-D realtionship. Looks like they guy back home DID and when she broke his trust and found a new guy that crushed him. I would not expect anything from the guy back home she had her chance and blew it. Sounds like this new guy at school is just what it sounds like on again off again. Sounds like he (guy at school) does not want a L-D realtionship.

johnrob26 · 06-04-2014, 08:27 AM

First off i'm assuming you were the new guy she dated. Secondly no this type of behavior is not normal however neither is you fb stalking your ex. You need to stop doing this and get over... especially because it doesn't seem like she is over her previous ex anyways. Believe me this is not a situation you want to get involved in.