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How to stop feeling depressed?
06-04-2014, 05:57 PM
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How to stop feeling depressed?
I just turned 18, but feel depressed all the time about girls. I am a pretty introvert guy at first which gets hard at times and it just brings me down. I feel out of place often and just get stressed out. I try to open up and act extrovert but just feel out of place. I work and breathe with all extroverts and am bad with meeting other girls. I work at a college cafeteria on the weekends (still in high school, senior) and like this one girl at another high school shes going there next year but I have never met her before I see her all over social media but I went to school with her sister but barely knew her either. I don't know why I feel so attracted to her and she seems fairly extrovert and a big into partying which I do sometimes. I want to talk to her but i would feel socially awkward and online would feel like a creep. I am going to a different college but we will be in the same town so it's just hard cause I like my job but know I am considering quitting because it will kill me every time I see her. I try to forget and move on and focus on my own life but sometimes it just gets hard. Just looking for some suggestions because I really want to move on from this.

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06-04-2014, 06:05 PM
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Move on from what exactly? From being attracted to her or being like this? If it is the way you are you can always change it if you find it makes you a better person but do not change for others to be liked by them. Keep your job, don&#x27;t let her affect you. If anything use it as another chance for her to see you. Do not pressure her into liking you though or being to pushy with getting to know her unless she&#x27;s into that. If you want to message her on a social networking site go do it! Think before you wrote and review as if someone was saying it to you so you would know how it feels. Then if you get to talking ask to hang out as friends at first, get to know her, if she says no, blow it off and say &quot;ok another time then&quot; and ask again after a month or two after speaking some more. Then finally express your feelings for her and ask her out this time as more then friends. This is just my outlook on things, in the end do what you need to do. Hope I helped

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