Should I ask her.............?

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I am almost 100 percent certain that I caught the guy I had been dating for the past 4 months talking and to another girl. She post on her twitter about how much she likes him and how he is all her's. When I confronted him about it he said that she's spreading rumors and that it isn't true. When I told him I don't believe that a girl would JUST spread rumors like that and that a guy has to be telling a girl something that leads her to believe they actually are speaking on that level in order for her to say that. He is still denying that he ever spoke to her in that kind of way. He told me that he only talks to her on twitter and texts her and he told me that he stopped talking to her. I even asked him if he's ever hung out with her and he denied that too. When I look at he twitter page, she's tweeted several times about how she's with him, etc., etc.

Every time I confront him about the situation, he denies it. I told him that I don't trust him and I want to ask her for my self and he told me I can. Should I ask her? Or do you think he might've gotten to her first and told her to deny it. I had my friend follow her on twitter and she followed her back so I was going to DM her through her page. Should I?

Also, when I told him I don't trust him and I only want to be his friend he told me he doesn't want to be my friend. If we can't work it out he's just going to leave me alone. With that being said should I just leave the entire situation alone? I still love him and care about him. I told him I can move on from this if he just mans up to it and that I wouldn't be upset. But he still hasn't confessed. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

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Wow, I'm so sorry, two days down without an answer, =(, anyways... I'm going to tell you my opinion, feel free to listen. I must admit this, I am extremely different from everyone else, have never had a girlfriend, at all, ever, and never had a first kiss or anything. But my knowledge, on these subjects can be superb, I study neurology, and psychology. Anywho.... It seems like he's probably cheating, but that's what anyone would say, if we investigate further, he might be telling the truth, maybe she's a little messed up, it's possible, anyone can be overly emotionally attached to something to try and ruin someone else over it. On the other hand, he might have cheated, and went to her to say she never hangs with him, or whatever. I mean, how much do you love him? He might not be the right person, as much as you think he is, if someone can't be proven to be telling the truth, they aren't quite worth it. You probably haven't quite found the right person yet, I know it sucks to hear, and I won't say there are plenty of fish in the sea, because there are few people that work with each person. We're like puzzle pieces, we only fit with a few, and only one that we fit with, will successfully connect with the rest... I'm sorry, I'm probably not answering this well D=, anyway... I believe that he is doing what he sees as right for him, but not thinking how it would affect you, and this doesn't make him a bad person, it makes him, a homo sapien. I think you just need to let go..
-To directly answer you, yes, ask her.
--Go ahead and add more info to your question to respond to me... I'll reconsider some things from there, and so on, till I've successfully helped you. =)....