Can you love someone at 14?

[423]

Last summer I had my first boyfriend. They was something about him, I think it was his sense of humor but we just like clicked.He was 16 and I was 14. He was my first kiss and I also lost my virginity to him. We only went out for 3 months and in that space we probably broke up ten times! The relationship was dysfunctional tbh! When we broke up for the final time, I became really sad. He was all I could think of and for about 2 months I would cry myself to sleep and skyve school because I was too upset to go. Eventually it stopped hurting so much. It's now heading onto a year later. I'm 15 now and I've met a lot of guys in the space but I don't click with any like I did with him. There's only been one guy who I've actually liked, again because of his sense of humor but for some reason it still doesn't feel the same! Every now and again, I think of my ex. I check his instagram and he use to text me once every two month (but hasn't text me since February now). He messed me around so much but he also changed me and no matter what deep down I want him back and I can't shake him off!! People say you can't love at 14 but I honestly think I did...

[Emma]

It's possible, but it's puppy love or strong infatuation most of the time.

[insertnamehere]

Most likely, no. There's is a good chance that you created a deep infatuation for him which was multiplied by your own ideas and pubescent hormones. You attached yourself to a person and are having trouble disentangling yourself now that you need to. I would recommend discussing this with your parents.

[Ariana]

At 14 theres a chance