How do I handle my relationship?

[Dillon]

So recently, my girlfriend and I have been running in to problems. She has been distant towards me.

She wouldn't see me on my birthday and got me a bottle of cologne. On her birthday, I bought her a $300 gift and decorated my house and baked her a cake... Even cooked her favorite meal for her. She took it all to go and had me drive her home because she wanted to see her grandma.

She ignores me all the time and only texts me when she wants to. She even went and got a job recently and works almost all the time, but didn't tell me until she was actually working.

She acts so different and distant. She gets so rude and defensive.

She even has the audacity to take another guy to her prom. She told me she will either find a guy to go to prom with her or she will go alone because she refuses to take me.

I don't know what her deal has been because I've been nothing but good to her...

Every time I mention us breaking up, she loses it. She bawls and apologizes. Tells me she doesn't want to lose me... But I'm fed up. I want to leave but I love her...

She is also extremely self conscience. She's a gorgeous cheerleader and is comfortable with posting bikini pictures, but I can rub her back or see her without long pants and a thick shirt because she 'thinks she's ugly'

She also snapchats other guys and had me blocked on all of her social media...

What do I do? Am I doing something wrong??

[gixxerboy]

This may sound harsh, but its sounds to me like she is not very interested in you anymore. She took another guy to prom, that is just not fair. It seems to me like she is looking for someone else, and you are her backup guy, just in case things don't work out. I'm sure she still loves you and all, but she is not "in love" with you anymore, but she doesn't want to lose you either, women they have a hard time letting go, so they can drag you on for ages before breaking up with you. If she wanted to be with you, she'd be with you. My advice is to get out of it, be with someone who actually wants to be with you, don't waste your time on someone who ignores you and goes out with other guys.