Another Girl keeps coming around......?

[395]

Signs he's not over her:
a) he told me the first night about one of the girls he's been with was for three years/that she wasn't great and made a negative/weird facial expression. I said no, she was probably nice. he told me we didn't need to talk about her.
b) he was joking with his friends about a sex party at Brown (which he brought up randomly), which is where his ex goes... he was thinking about a previous conversation with her (saw from messages)
c) he told me to cut my hair when I said I might want to cut it... pointed to the same length as his ex... might be coincidence though
d) I told him that I once had a guy ask me for nudes and he told me a guy used to ask his girlfriend at the time for them and that it made him really mad. he referred to her as his girlfriend not his ex.
e) we were joking once and he was pretending to be somebody else/would ask me questions. he said hi my name is julie. (his ex girlfriend's name).. this was the first major red flag for me..
they have been broken up for two. didn't know they still communicated until saw text on his phone asking him if he got her voicemail.
f) still has fb pictures of her/is on tinder
things that work in my favor.. said he liked me most out of all girls ever/i was the best at sex/ saw messages on his facebook and are primarily her contacting him.. not sure about texts, but he obviously did not respond to her voicemail even though he had been talking to me that week. i asked him if he still had feelings he
for the record I have broken up with him and am looking for closure of some sorts. I will NOT get back together with him, as I did not feel happy or secure in the relationship. ALSO i feel kind of aggravated because it's been about two weeks and he apparently liked his ex's facebook picture according to my friends... I just feel very disrespected/upset because I feel like I invested so much time and he really did not care/only cared about her...

[Camryn]

I think you did the right thing. Try not to think about him and find some distractions. Good luck! Please, if you would answer my Q, I would appreciate it!

[Days Go By]

Don't dwell on him and put him out of your mind. Not healthy to be having regrets- only regret you should have is that you didn't leave quicker.

[esmerelda]

Nice list.

Now -- write the list out on a piece of paper, put it in a metal pan, set fire to it, and flush the ashes down the toilet.

If you've broken up with him, that little ritual may get through to your subconscious that it is time to LET GO.