Am I wrong or is he wrong?

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My bf and I have had a rocky relationship for the past 3years. He never does anything nice for me. He lives with his parents, never says he love me and there's days when he don't text me.
After 3 years of getting to know his family, I learned he have emotional issues. He cannot tell anyone he love them if he really does. Not only that, he has a very bad temper and if you try and talk to him about issues, he blows up then shuts down.

After finding out he was using Facebook to talk to girls during a mini break up, I sent him a friend request but he refused to add me.

I cried and told him it hurts me knowing he has other women on his FB but not his own girlfriend. After our talk, he sent me a request but I never accepted it because I don't want to force him to do something he doesn't want to do.

I consider myself attractive, I own my own home and I get attention from guys. He is very handsome to me but for some reason he has lots of insecurities. I love him so much it's like I love everything wrong about him.

Because we are not married, I have male friends. Sunday, he got mad because I showed him a message where one of my guy friends asked me to be with him. The next day I didn't hear from him and we end up arguing and he told me during the argument he has a gf.

I hacked his phone and saw exactly 1hour after I showed him the messages from my guy friend, he went online and start talking to a woman and exchanged numbers.

Am I wrong or should I move on?

[Lewis G]

He clearly doesn't care about you anymore if you guys have been together this long and it's still rocky IN MY OPINION you should just cut your losses and leave him. He's clearly moved on so should you

[386]

both of you are assholes