why does he hate me for no reason?

[kate]

Please read i have tried to make this as short as i can without leaving too much detail out. i have known this guy since march of last year. when ever im out especially at the beginning of the night he just stands around chatting to his friends and turns his back to me. we were drunk the 1st time we met. we ended up kissing (he lied and said it was his birthday. his birthday is in july not march) and afterwards he asked me for my number he text me a few times asking me when is he 'going to get another kiss' or to go for a drive with him. he added me on facebook soon afterwards (he removed me a few months ago and stopped answering my text messages too and a few weeks later he re-added me). when we are out he texts me something like 'having a good night' or 'not talking' even though we are in the same room or sitting across from each other.

we did sleep together in april last year but we haven't kissed or done anything since. we spoke again on facebook a few days later after we slept together and he asked me again if i wanted to go for a drive i declined. i sent him an angry text message when i left the nightclub one night and this time he responded back. he said he 'regretted falling out' with me and told me it was over his guy friend (who is also my friend and he likes me a lot its a complicated mess). he sends me messages asking me am i 'up for a drive' and asking me up to his place which is located outside town. he was really nasty with me on facebook a few months ago just because i sent him a few text messages. he never even bothered to respond to any of them. he said he didn't want to have anything to do with me anymore and when i suggested we stop talking when we see each other he said 'sounds good' and he also said 'i dont want anything to happen with us again basically blunt but true'. im really hurt over it. Just a few days after that incident he deleted me from his facebook account again for the 2nd but this time he blocked me. ive met him 2 wednesday nights in a row recently and neither of us have spoken we just looked at each other maintained a bit of eye contact and looked away. he came over to a table i was sitting at with a friend and he left his drink down. should i spoken then was that an invitation?? i also heard from a friend that he called me a 'low life' and that my friend shouldnt talk to me anymore. but i also heard he liked me too. i bumped into him another night and he sat at a different table with his back turned to me but i noticed he looked over his shoulder at me twice. i also seen him out another night he said hi to my friend not me but when i looked back he had a smile on his face. another night he rubbed his body off mine as he walked by. i also noticed earlier today that he removed me from his blocked list on facebook after months of being blocked. i can now view his profile. what should i do if he tried to re add me? i met him again last night and he just glanced over at me twice.

[Ross Geller]

What's the point of asking why when you already know he hates you for no reason?

[Matt]

Because you had sex with him. He got all he wanted from you. On to someone else. Sorry sweetie but that's the way us guys roll.

It doesn't necessarily mean that he hates you, but he's done with you. You'll figure this out as you get older, but us guys don't really want you to give it up to us so easily. We want you to playfully reject our advances for awhile until the time is right. The girls who reject us the longest make the best girlfriends (maybe even wives), because we know that we can trust you, and you aren't likely to cheat on us. Just don't reject us for too long, or we'll start thinking you're not really interested. But when a girl we have taken interest in falls for our advances hook, line, and sinker very early on, we will take it, but it's one and done. Our logic being that if she gave it up so easily, she won't hesitate to give it up to another guy behind our backs.

[?]

He sure sounds pretty lame. Forget about it.

[Topher Brink]

Um, apparently he has no reason.