Do you think this guy is using me? (Please Answer)?

[766]

Hello, so I've been talking to this guy for days now on Twitter DM and iMessage. One time we talked, he just asked something from me. That's why everytime we talk, I feel like he just needs something from me, not that type of he wants to talk to me because he is interested in me.

He sometimes text first but I'm still not sure if he's trying to talk to me because he needs something. When he doesn't text me I feel like he doesn't care for me...

Please answer me...
He isn't asking money. He's asking me to give him the games I've made from this online building game. (I'm not a nerd) Thanks for answering! He once texted me saying Hey and stuff but I still kind of have this feeling that he's getting my feelings so I can give what he wants, or I'm just paranoid.
And I'm also possessive/needy I don't know what to do, I'm stuck in this situation.

[Lissette C]

it really depends on what he asks for. but if you don't feel comfortable about it, then just stop talking to him, or something.

[Jenny]

I can't really tell you what you want to know. What is he asking you? If it's homework, probably, but try to say no sometimes and see if it stops (no matter what it is). Good luck!

[Ron]

He could be shy.
There's not a lot of detail here though.

[Uderfrykte]

Its easy. Just don't give him whatever he's asking from you. If he is just using you'll, he'll take off, and you'll be better off, and be able to find someone better. If he's not using you, he'll be perfectly fine with the arrangement. Either way, you win.

[travelgirl99]

If he is only contacting you when he needs something, and doesn't contact you just to shoot the breeze and have a nice conversation, then yeah,he is a user...get rid of him, who needs that?!

[Celticgirl]

Not to be old-fashioned, but texting/Twitter/iMessage isn't the best way to have a relationship. Face-to-face is always better.

[Allison]

I think you're over-complicating it. If he's not manipulating your emotions or flirting to get what he wants (whatever it is), he's probably just asking favors, and isn't all that interested in that way.

Of course, you did say this was ONE time that he asked something. You can decide where your relationship goes from here. If you like him, you can push your relationship to a better place.

[Mark]

No, I don't think he's using you. Some people can be very needy. If this bothers you too much, then don't message him or tell him nicely to stop asking you for stuff

[|_0|_/-|]

Well, I would listen to my gut feeling, BUT remember, sometimes guys are shy around girl's they like so maybe he is just coming up with dumb questions or excuses just to talk to you. Maybe he doesn't wanna always text you and message you and be like "Hey, What's up?" and then that's it. And maybe he hasn't asked you out yet or anything because he is scared of denial/rejection. Just keep talking to him. Maybe if your a little more blunt than he is..try asking him or tricking him into admitting he likes you first! Good luck!