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Girl has a huge crush on my boyfriend...?
06-08-2014, 02:07 AM
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Girl has a huge crush on my boyfriend...?
Basically this girl who's good friends with my boyfriend has developed a huge crush on him. It never bothered me till about a week ago. She started posting on his Facebook/Instagram but my boyfriend never reacted. I said to him that it made me feel a bit funny seeing this and he reassured I have nothing to worry about, he's with me and not her, he only sees her as a little sister. My boyfriend is always happy to help a friend, will always try and help and is just a nice guy! But I think him being a nice guy is what's making her like him even more.... The other week, I got my hair dyed and cut, then the next day this girl has the exact same hairstyle as me. I then bought a new dress that my boyfriend said looks amazing on me, the next day she has the same dress...I trust my boyfriend completely. He has never cheated, hates cheaters cause a girl cheated on him once and his best friend, and he has NEVER done anything to hurt me. But this girl is getting to me and I'm not sure what to do.

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06-08-2014, 02:15 AM
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be her friend and rub it in her nose how much you love eachother be nice to her but let her know how much he cares about you

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06-08-2014, 02:26 AM
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confront her
and tell her that you find it annoyin and that he's with you not her
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06-08-2014, 02:40 AM
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If he doesn&#x27;t react then that is a good sign, but be careful incase something develops, if you don&#x27;t like it , kindly confront the girl about how you feel about it, she is being disrespectful on you in my opinion, she should know her boundaries and you have a right to tell this girl that you don&#x27;t like the way she acts around your boyfriend, but remember, don&#x27;t be nasty, just explain and polite, she might not even know it&#x27;s bothering you, just be kind about it and let her know how it makes you feel
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06-08-2014, 02:43 AM
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You should be flattered that you have a desirable boyfriend. You shouldn&#x27;t be worried it seems like he really cares about you. My mom alway told me you should take imitation as a compliment
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06-08-2014, 02:50 AM
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As he doesn't react and hates cheaters and is a nice guy you have nothing to worry about. I was in a similar position to your boyfriend but i wasn't really friends with this girl i just knew her and was in her class in school. I knew she liked me before i was with my girlfriend and then she started copying my gf and glaring at her and talking about her before she was out of ear shot. My gf doesn't get jealous and like you knows i wouldn't cheat EVER.

But it did annoy her so we started being really extra happy in front of her and kissing in front of her (which was actually my gf's idea so i guess she got a little jealous Wink but it made her feel better) and this girl is now not so much of a bitch to me or my gf. Maybe you should confront her and just talk to her about it, i know my female friend wanted to for us and my gf was thinking about it. They can be feisty for such petite girls!
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06-08-2014, 02:55 AM
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Could her style be a coincidence lol? I mean, summer is coming up and usually around summer people start doing funny things to their hair and dresses usually come out in the summer. Idk
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