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Is my Christian guy friend gay? and is he interested in me?
06-08-2014, 07:12 AM
Post: #1
Is my Christian guy friend gay? and is he interested in me?
First of all, I am gay, deeply in closet...

Here are some things about my guy friend.

He's good with languages and music, he loves Disney and Mickey.
He's born and raised as a Christian.

We met last year, in March, through a Christian friend, at a Christian meeting.
The first time, he said he would invite me to his place for badminton, which never came ture later on, coz he's too busy and his place's too far away...
He hugged me with one arm, and pulled me partially into his arms.

Second time,
He said he could drive me to his church, just as I said earlier, too far away, never came ture either... But I was touched everytme when he said something like that.
He also put his hand on my head, playing with my hair for a little bit, to say hi.
He had known other people for a longer period, but he only did this with me.

Fifth time, May
He hugged me from behind, a very very strong hug.

Then there's a camp, he encouraged me to go. I said I may not be able to go. He said he could come back to drive me even if I stayed for one day, its 3 hours' drive one-way. so, I was touched again. but then he couldnt make it himself, so neither of us did go...

Once, there were group photos of our bible study group. 19 of them, he only liked the one that I liked. When I used it as my cover photo, he liked it again...

Then June, his 21st, he invited me, I was surprised, since we only met 5-6 times...
He only invited 7-8 guy friends through facebook, and I was one of them.
…………
He wanted to sit with me, but his mother set him with another friend.
Then he drove me home, 25 minutes drive.

Once, we shared some family stuff with each other, like divorce, parents, grandparents and stuff like that.

Then, my birthday, not a big deal, coz I dont do birthdays...
He came, and gave me an envelope with $100 in it...
too much I felt. Since I only gave him some tea and a Mickey bookmark...
And he hugged me very very strongly again...

…………

This year, we played sports together, he suggested me to be on his team.
He hit me on my finger, then he came close and said sorry, held my shoulder and touched my finger for a long time, everytime he did similar things, I swear I can feel his chest...

………………

some friends told me he's gay and interested in me.

but he's too busy, he doesnt have time to spend with me.
plus, he's christian.

every hope just went off.

………………

Its very detailed, and quite long,

thanks for reading this!

and look forward to some replies. Smile
The fear of losing him as a friend + the fact that he and his family are christian
= I dont dare to do anything...
and hes too busy anyway, if he cant get out from his busy schedule and have sometime with me, I am even more not sure about everything...

Dont know how you guys can be so sure, lol
I thought such question in this section would have a lot of "NO" answers//

Zvi,
I am new to this country, so, basically very alone.
I have many friends, and I treasure friendship a lot, so I'm not ready to risk it....
sigh

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06-08-2014, 07:23 AM
Post: #2
 
That was a beautiful story and yes he sounds very gay.

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06-08-2014, 07:36 AM
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Troll much?
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06-08-2014, 07:38 AM
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I'm heterosexual so idk for certain, but I think you two have a future as gay lovers. He probably likes you so good for you.
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06-08-2014, 07:47 AM
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My Gaydar is blinking.

In this day and age, why are you so deep in the closet.
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