Am I really in love with him?

[A.H]

I'm interested in someone whom I meet in my tuition classes. Yesterday I found a Facebook account in his name and i was shocked and there was a difficulty in breathing at that time too.so as I think, it's his profile. And today when I went to a tuition class and he was there. As i was not able to find the class I asked HIM about that and i was just excited. I don't know whether I have a feeling about him. I always think about him and always remind about him. But some of his friends are kidding him by telling the name of another girl whom I know. i hate that. Im not used in talking to boys and no one of my friends know about these stuff and I dont like to tell them as well. but ofcourse i'm writing these stuff in my diary. so plz tell me, what should I do now and as i think i will be able to see him only till the end of the next year. what should i do???? am i in love with him or what?????. (there will be grammar mistakes in the description.sorry for that ) I'm 14 yrs old - A girl
And also I stare at him sometimes but he doesn't. I'M CRAZY OF HIM.

[achildlikeprincess]

Just add him and casually say hey your the dude from my tuition class.
The more direct and casual you make it sound won't make him feel suspicious
Guys are usually really casual and excepting and they don't skip to conclusion... unless he is immature

do mine please

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[JL]

Well, you certainly feel something. Ask him out. Or even just to hang out.

[Allie]

A Scientific fact- If you have a crush on someone for more then 4 months then your in love with them.

I don't really know if what your feeling is love. As my dad would say at 14 your to young to know what love is. Love is a very strong emotion that can either make you or break you in most cases so I don't think your in love and at 14 you should be enjoying life with friends and family not worrying about boys. I was single until I turned 21. If you get involved with someone at to young an age and your not emotionally ready then you should just steer clear of relation ships and enjoy your youth.

If you can't get over him and insist on wanting to be with him then you should find away to stay in contact with him or ask to see if he's interested in you.

[advice_please!]

Hello!

First off, breath. it's all good. Sounds to me like you are infatuated by this boy! That's totally cool and very very normal!

so, it's good that you have things in common with this boy, you are doing a tuition class together, so that is common ground - something you can start a conversation around. Have you had a chance to talk to him? that would be a great start. Boys can be pretty clueless about who likes them or not, so it's a good idea to get to know him as a person first so you can relax.

If you get the chance you could direct the conversation to one about popular culture like music and movies and which ones he likes etc and then say something along the lines of "have you seen that new "blah blah" movie? I want to see it - we should go".

but maybe wait till you have had a few basic conversations first. this way you get to see him alone without your and his friends hanging around and being a pain but without it being classified as a "date" or you having to ask "will you be my boyfriend" which is lame and a very scary thing to do!

this is much better because then you can be casual about how much you like him. You control the pace. also, if he isn't interested (which even thought I am sure you are gorgeous and clever and funny, can sometimes happen) there's no love lost as you haven't blurted out "I LOVE YOU" you have kept calm and you come out looking polished and fine. then you can go home and cry.

haha but I hope that doesn't happen! Dating is a gamble and you will stumble along the way, but that's ok.

good luck xxx