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964 · 06-08-2014, 02:41 PM

I am a high school senior. I have a small group of friends and I work 2 jobs. I work at a golf club and at my local college as a pizza baker. I am also a fairly introvert guy. I can be friendly but feel people just pretend to be friendly back and just ignore me which sometimes I am ok with. I also really struggle with what to do about this girl. I went to school with her older sister but shes at another different local high school but will be going to the college i work at while I will be going to a different college in the area but will still be working at the college cooking. I have never met her sister but I randomly came across her on facebook and see her all over social media twitter etc. She also works at a local food place in my town. I really want to talk to her and at the same time just want to move on and forget her. This really bugs me just feeling introvert and always figuring out what I should do about her i have even considered messaging her but I just don't want to feel like a creep.

Shinji · 06-08-2014, 02:54 PM

Don't kill yourself please man you have so much going for you. It's just a bump in the road man.

Mystique · 06-08-2014, 02:58 PM

Don't message her. The first impression shouldn't be over social media. It should be in person, face to face. If you've seen her in public anywhere, go there and "bump" into her and start talking to her. Approach her, don't say Ive seen you around, ive seen you on facebook or anything like that. Just start with a compliment like a shirt shes wearing or you just thought that she was beautiful. It doesn't happen often randomly complimenting strangers. but doesn't mean that its weird. Anyways compliment her, and just start with that and just talk about anything. Don't overthink it. If you REALLY want to talk her and get to know her then you need to take action. Let the conversation flow and be comfortable.

The point is approach her in public and just make small talk and see where it goes from there. You never know if you share a similar interest things could go well IF you take action. Good luck!