I hate my "friend" and I think he his is actually insane/bipoar, what do I do?

[Maggiee White]

I've known him since the 2nd grade and we're in the 10th grade now. Everyone could tell that he's always been a little off, but once I got to know him in middle school, I ignored it. When I say "a little off" I mean that he's basically a spaz. He cries a lot and isn't afraid to make a scene. Examples, once in elementary, he threw a book at a teacher, he licked some girls, in middle school he yelled "f*ck you, go to hell!" to a girl in our class because she was clicking a pen near his ear and then he started crying-he did this in the middle of class, he also sent a message to our class via facebook basically saying that he doesn't like us and wants all of us to be split up in highschool, and he goes to cry in the bathroom a lot without even saying why if you ask him he gets mad. So yeah he's pretty off. I say he's bipolar because he does all these dramatic things, like the ones I listed, and then all of a sudden, he just stops, he just glosses over it and pretends that nothing even happened. He doesn't say sorry for it either. Sometimes at school in the morning, he'll be so upset and then in the afternoon, he's normal again. Does he sound bipolar to you?

I say he's insane, because he always talks about killing people or hurting them really bad and getting revenge. I used to think that he was just kidding around, but now he says it so much that I'm starting to worry. He holds grudges really bad. This one guy accidentally messed up his phone and now my friend says "I hate him, i'll get my revenge one day" even people who borrow pens from him and don't return them! He says "oh so and so still owes me a pen" and it's been like 3 years! There's one girl in our class who he thinks is a b*tch even though they don't talk or anything and he told me that he wants to "slice her vagina". That's terrible! She didn't even do anything to him, they don't even talk!

and lastly, I say I hate him because he always says "f*ck you" to me, at first it was okay and funny, but now it's kind of hurting me feelings. He's called me a bitch too and always wants to be better than me, like if he gets like 1 percent higher than me on a test, he rubs it in my face and when we're doing tests, he always has to be done before me. He also never says sorry to me and makes me do all the work at school. One time, in our home ec class, he dropped our pizza on the floor and I had to clean it up because i was in his group! and he gets mad at me for little things! once, he got mad at me for not going to school because i was sick! he was seriously mad! i even said sorry even though even though i thought it was unnecessary and he said it was fine and told me to get some rest, then two weeks later, he brings it up and says he's mad about it! wth!!

what do i do? :/ i don't want to be his friend anymore, but i've known him for so long and it would be obvious if i detached myself from him.

[Christina]

There isn't a good way to go about it tbh. If you don't want to remain friends with him, then stop talking to him, hanging out with him, responding to his texts/calls etc. Or start acting a cold towards him. Sooner or later he ought to get the message. He sounds a bit like he's seeking attention. If you're his only friend he shouldn't be saying 'fuck you' to you. If you don't want to cut him out of your life completely or want to improve your friendship, then tell him you'd like to speak to him about how he treats you. If he doesn't listen, then at least you can say you've tried.

[Sapphire]

Hmm this is a tricky one , I agree and it does sound like he has some form of mental instability , does he ever talk to himself ?? Or say he can see things ??? If so then he may even be schizophrenic :/ , I sort of know about this stuff but I can't say for sure coz I don't know him :/ but I would talk to him , and ask him about these behaviours , do you have a responsible adult to talk too ?? Because if he does have a serious mental disorder , then it's best it gets looked at before it's out of control ? I know it may be difficult , but try not to hate him , he will need support if he is dealing with a disorder , look things up online and see how you can help you to understand his situation ! Take the little online tests and put his symptoms in and see if you can get anything from that , it does help , I found out that I have extreme social anxiety disorder and depression just by looking it up and taking the online test and now I'm getting professional help :/ , good luck and stay strong !