Wat does it mean when a guy says 'guess i owe u an explanation, I like u and i hope we will b frnds 4 life! X'?

[679]

this is after i asked him on fb chat if he felt a special connection with me the night we met. told him i didnt want to play games and i was showing him my cards. told him that i wouldnt think of him any less either way...
he waited for 6 days before responding, and now i am confused...

i know when a guy says lets be friends it means that he isnt into you...
i also know if a guys says he likes you it means that he does like you and he is trying to see if things work out....

in this case, what does it mean? he said both!
on the first night we met, he was flirting with me and complimenting my eyes and smile.... and then he grabbed me and kissed me in full view of all his family and friends ( we were at a wedding) ...we ended up hooking up that night.... and he has since added me on his fb. the day after the wedding he was flying back to where he lives ( different country to mine) and we have been in touch since
....it was only recently i asked the question as i cant stop thinking about him and i just wanted to figure out whats going on which is why i asked the question written above

[justme]

It means he doesn't see you in any romantic or relationship way.You made an approach, and he is backing off.