Should i tell my fiance that I've seen his FB profile?

[susu]

Should i tell my fiance that I've seen his FB profile?
I made a new fb account then i added my fiance (whithout knowing that its me) then he agreed .
I've seen his list of friends and some comments from some girls..should i tell him that am not happy with these or just forget it??
plzzz help

[lemonloveless]

how untrusting are you that you had to create a new FB profile to spy on your "fiance"

[bigtalltom]

you have to spy on him through facebook? why not create a real account as you and add him??

Well, good luck in your marriage.

[Pheo]

Considering you're entering into a seriously committed relationship with someone, you should always be honest. Maybe those are some of his friends that are girls from high school. Don't be over protective and tell him he shouldn't talk to those girls, but just tell him that it makes you uncomfortable with the things they say.

[aloha16]

make a real profile as you and add him as a friend. then he'll know that its ok that you saw everything because your friends.

[Sparkles]

The fact you had to do this shows the lack of trust. To be honest if it worries you then have a word, be upfront with him.
The nets a very fickle place and people get the opportunity to say what normally they wouldn't dream of saying to a person should they meet them face to face and to use words like babe, hun etc so try not to get to worked up.

[Heather]

a relationship is based on trust. if you are going to marry him then you will have to trust him 100% your not going to be happily married if you cant. you are going to be miserable. if i were you i would not tell him about the facebook thing. he might think that your turning psycho on him and that could end what you two have. i would just sit him down and talk to him. that's what i did when my boyfriend were 2 hours away from each other during school. im sorry to say but if you cant trust him. then don't marry him. cuz trust is a huge thing. not only in a relationship but also a marriage

[Pink Diamond]

If your questioning his enough to create a false Face book, than you should take a good look at yourself and figure out if this is your insecurity or if there's a real reason of mistrust. Don't get me wrong, I'm not judging you, I have done something similar. At the end of the day he's your fiance and you should trust him whole heartily since you will be trusting him with your life and the lives of your future children. If you can't, you must figure out where the problem lies (you or him). Go from there. I have had many relationships and many great loves. It's only my personal op pinion that if this type of problem exist in a relationship is a serious trust issue. It's even more alarming to me that this issue has come up during an engagement. There shouldn't be this type of mistrust in engagements, hopefully they would have been worked out before hand. On the bright side, he purposed so he must love you. Talk to him and tell him your concerns. You also should tell him about the false site. On a side note, if he's adding you as a random stranger, then he's probably not to concerned about what goes on his page.

Aren't you his friend on face book? Can't you see the messages from your account? Face book has relationship status and yours could be linked so that both your friends and his friend know. If not, make one. Become a part of his online life. Good luck!

Many Blessings,

Amber