boyfriend and social media..?

[Brooke]

So what do you feel about a man who has been in a committed relationship for over a year going onto his instagram and "liking" pictures of girls he used to know, and may know a little now? They are just selfies but are very attractive. Is this normal and ok?

[oIiIo]

InDONT like that! Weird thing.. And I mean the very weird thing... Pay attention here.. My boyfriends BEST FRIEND.. Is engaged. His names "mike." MIKE keeps liking pics of MY BOYFRIENDS ex gf!!! Is that effing weird or what!? I'm like who should be more disturbed? Me or this guys fiancée? It's all this girls dumb selfies where she puts a load of make up and makes duck faces at her camera phone.. If he bf is in the pic he doesn't like it. It's all as of November also and I've been with my bf since may so I'm like.. Does this guy prefer her to me? Does he think she was a better gf for my bf? Does he think she's hotter than me or does he just have a thing for her? Pretty sure she's not friends with his fiancée so I'm like is she the one who has to be concerned? Either way what you're saying.. I don't like it one bit! Maybe he's just airing but if it's something that he would think would irk u he should NOT BE DOING it and most people should know their S/o would NOT like this. Talk2him4sho

[Lila]

Unfortunately, this might be a battle you can't win.
There are SO many ways for him to see or be in touch with or "like" his ex-girlfriends or simply comment on their lives/pictures, etc.

All you can do is politely state that you don't appreciate him "liking" his exes pictures because you feel disrespected and embarrassed and then ask him to please stop.

If he's a good guy, he'll stop doing it.

If he's kind of a jerk, he'll probably get mad, act defensive and keep doing it.

Then it's up to you to decide what to do about it.

Your boyfriend shouldn't be "liking" selfies of other girls ~ that IS disrespectful and really just childish.
Good luck!