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why would my cousin block me on facebook?
06-10-2014, 07:02 AM
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why would my cousin block me on facebook?
my cousin is my age, 24. we have known each other our whole lives and grew up together.

we are two very different people though. i was always very level-headed and driven and successful.
she was adopted by my aunt and uncle at a young age. she has some attachment issues, and i don't blame her. she has problems with boyfriends, a hard time staying in school and focused, she has no idea what she wants to do for a career, etc. I feel bad for her.

Recently she got involved with a bad crowd. she has a shady boyfriend who we think is a drug dealer. she cut off all ties with our family. she blocked me on facebook for a month and a half, then recently unblocked me, but still hasn't friended me back. A few months ago i tried to reach out to her because she was posting these troubling quotes on facebook and instagram. i was worried. she never took my help. then that's when she blocked me and hasn't talked to be in a few months.

what is the deal? my parents think she blocked me so she doesn't have to see what's going on in my life on her facebook newsfeed. it hurts me to think that she is envious and hates who i am.

should i just wait for her to come around?

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06-10-2014, 07:09 AM
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aw are you gonna cry face it she doesnt want anybody helping her out or anything. She was adopted and used you guys and now that shes older she wants to block people out her life because she knows you guys are going to snitch her out. Drugs and weed and drinking are messing with her brain and decisions she will end up dead if she doesnt get help sorry its truth its hard talking to people like her cause they already probebly hate life and do anything they want

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06-10-2014, 07:18 AM
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Oh, please -- just stop it. This business on Facebook about someone being blocked or unblocked, or adding you as a "friend" and then later deleteting you doesn't amount to a thing, and stop thinking that it does. If nothing else, many times Facebook gets a "glinch", and FB itself blocks people and then unblocks them, and deletes friends and then re-adds them -- you don't know what is going on. FB is run by a computer too, and FB's computer may be doing this, because it is looking for certain things that it calls "abuse"!

One time that I know of, someone reported a FB account holder's page for abuse. The account was under (if you can believe this) the name of "Smith". FB ended up blocking all pages and messages of people on FB that had "Smith" anywhere in their username for several days, until they figured out which account the original compliant was referring to. Just wait a few more days, and you might be unblocked and re-friended again. Your cousin may not even KNOW you've been blocked.

There is such a thing as a telephone. If you think you cousin in angry with you, just phone her and ask what the problem is. Don't relay on Facebook or Instagram to be your only means of communicating with her.
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