My friend keeps putting me down?

[LittleMixMuffin]

I WANT it to stop now. It's the most ruddest thing and my friend will not knock it off. Every second she gets she will say something about me. I know it's a joke, but it's constiantly. I'm at this concert right now, and she knows it's for my brithday. She sends me a FB message of: 'your profile pic is SO funny!' than another one: 'lol hilarious!' It's a pic of myself wearing a hat my mother got me as a present. I feel terrible now I'm worried that everyone will think the same thing! It just put me in a bad mood, and I have this concert in a few minutes...I want to cry. The funny thing about it all is, her FB pic is not even of herself, but a celebrity. She knows what she is doing, and I just ignored the comment. Should I stop talking to her?

[King Swahilli]

The only reason she'll keep doing stuff like that is she knows it gets to you. I offer you two solutions:
1. Act like it doesn't bother you, just say "what ev" and let it go.
2. Do the same stuff back to her.

[M]

Talk to her about it and tell her how it makes you feel.

[mandygrv2240]

I would. She doesn't seem like a real friend if she's constantly putting your down. Ask her to stop and tell her how it really makes you feel. If she continues, then I would end the friendship.

[Sandy]

Laughing at your pic doesn't seem mean or hurtful. You seem very sensitive. If your friend won't stop putting you down, then block her and end your friendship. If you don't want to go to that extreme, you could just tease her back and laugh at her all the time until she gets it.

[TANGENTINE]

Tangentine would keep fighting with her until it stopped. The quiet thing maybe not, but argue back and point out her stupid FB picture and dont b soft spoken about it. But when she stops then you stop. You may b worried they will find you uncool. So would you rather b cool but known as the door mat? Or would u rather b uncool but gain respect for yourself.

First psychologically prepare ur mind that u may lose ur friends. Worst case scenario. But you already know that someone who doesnt respect ur feelings isnt really ur friend. Better u know now than delude yourself.

[Jgirl]

You should tell her how you feel about the situation.
** Notice I said situation NOT her.
Let her not what she's been doing. You state your problem. And be done with it. If you still want to be friends with her, let her know that. And if this applies tell her that if she keeps on you can't associate with her anymore. And whether she wants to change or not is between her and God. Let him handle that. And you may not be religious but The reason I say that is because you can't change the person or make them do anything, but you can talk to them. Hope I helped.

[Sara]

People seem to have this inability to confront people. You're just going to stop talking to her and leave it up to her to figure out why you did?

Confront her. Tell her that you don't appreciate her remarks. Tell her that you need it to stop. If she calls you a big baby or keeps doing it - then you know she isn't actually your friend at all and then, yes, stop talking to her.